Cleaning Out the Emo Closet

Have you noticed the trend that it's not cool to be emotional? I always find this funny because people often forget that most if not ALL of their feelings constitute as emotional. Everyone is emotional. Just because you aren't "sad" it doesn't necessarily mean you aren't emotional. Happiness, is an emotion. Based on this notion I have concluded that we all obtain a secret emotional closet that maybe we visit hung over on Sundays, trying to figure out what to keep and what to throw away. You might find its more so just 'mental pondering' and you might not be ready to throw anything away. Or have the strength to physically change anything.
Likely you have found there are those pants, you know the ones, the pair you just can't seem to part with. Even if you know they don't fit you anymore (at least not the way they used to) your still not quite ready to throw them out. Just as for some, your not quite ready to buy a new pair. While for others they have impulsively bought so many pairs, only to find that none flatter quite right. Keep buying clothes, but make wise purchases. With the fall change, you have to spend some time in your emotional closet - even if you find it sappy - the beauty of a closet is that only you have to be trapped there. It's your personal prism.

Likely there is something you can find, which is collecting dust. In which case it might be useful to get rid of it...seriously?? How much abuse can you take? *sneeze* Don't be a masochist this season. Really try to be good for yourself, because the moment you decide to dress yourself up in love, self love, your love, of looking good, feeling good and wearing exactly what you desire to - you will find a sense of excitement.You will feel the attention - naturally. More leaves to fall for those that follow this attitude. Anything can happen, but you have to clean out your closet so you can be open to these anythings. Before you know it, your disposition will be completely changed...and what you once felt sadness or distress over- will simply feel like a foreign memory...a "i can't believe i wore that moment" if you will, but obviously so much more emo ;)

Aquarius - You're still surrounding yourself with the 'sweet and temporary' because as much as you want something built to last, your in the least likely place right now for that to occur. You need to be OK first, without any distraction. Keep with the adventure, but stay true to self desire,you might find something worth discovering (like a new philosophy)...lately your a teeter totter though...find your ride.

Pisces - Don't let your feisty nature get the best of you. Keep it cool. Get stuff done. You put everything off to the last minute because you secretly work better under pressure, but you know that just stresses you out more and then you turn to addictions and vices. Tisk. Tisk. PS - Even The Dream think you're feisty : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eQzY5q6vePo*. Stop procrastinating!

Sag - You are so much more emotional than you try to let on. Stop needing so much attention, secretly and for those who aren't demanding enough attention - it is your time to shine, so turn it on...soon please. Swimming in similar pattern never did a Sag well. Get your bow and arrow and find something worthwhile to hunt!

Aries - A lot of you are in a good place, but you find yourself never satisfied even when you should. You always have something to hang your hip on. Ease up on the self regimen and enjoy what you got - stop trying to control everything - you will never win this way. Sometimes you're just wrong - deal with it and learn to apologize with sincere emotions not a ram head. First remove your thorns then make your next move.

Cancer - You are working through cobs webs to find a person you can value truthfully. You want to enjoy life and want to be around people who get this notion. You don't want to be judged because regardless of the jokes and silly shit that come out of your mouth, you really do want everyone to be happy and enjoying life, that's what life was made for right? Good attitude - but i still think you need to dig a bit deeper for something that can't be found readily on the surface.

Taurus - Ease up on that grip. Sometimes life happens, it doesn't always go according to plan. Your tough. You know you can get through anything. You know your level head has seen you through so much and will see you through more. Think with your level head and not your stubborn bull head and you should be good to go. You know Taurus time is a lot slower than the normal clock, so be patient, everything is going to be fine like good dinner and wine, just the way you like it.

Scorpio - There is always something bottled beneath the currents of a Scorpion sea. So secretive. An attitude adjustment needs to be implement for true change to occur. Pretending you don't care, doesn't mean you don't care. Nor does avoiding what you claim not to care about. You are the toughest of the wimpy water signs, you take anything by the reigns, but sometimes you have to work inside out INSTEAD of outside in.

Leo - I feel its a toss up for Leos. some of you are quite conflicted with personal distress or turmoil. While others are busy working hard and making strong love connections in daily endeavors and home life. Leo craves the hearty comforts so attach yourself to whatever feels good. You have a tendency to get emotional in the midst of bad weather so don't let it completely over take your golden, Leo badge. You still gotta shine even if you got a lot on your mind, your people are waiting.

Libra - What is there to say? Your still keeping it cool. Dressing fresh. Loving life - despite whatever turns and turmoils you've over turned. you move on well and with a steady pace. You have a great outlook on things, which is why you can move forward easily - but you know you tend to avoid the reality of what you want. The moment is great - but where is the moment going? For some of you its time to put away your peter pan flying shoes and figure out what the future truly holds. What do you want? The indecision of a Libra complicate things....often.

Gemini - Some of you are doing awesome - working hard - living life - loving being in love. Others are a total train-wreck. Socializing will not cure your depression. Nor will suppression of emotion or throwing caution to the wind. You can be really, really good when you want to be - but your inconsistent these days. Really good then really bad - and really bitchy - think before you shoot!

Capricorn - Snore! I'm sensing a lull of regulatory that is even starting to drive you batty. It's time for a change, a new flight to success, you are bored and you know it. There is more to life than working hard so get back to the ways of excitement - you deserve it - and no it doesn't make you bad person.

Virgo - Your analytical nature doesn't always ring true to your intentions. You want to dominate and will belittle anyone who tries to step to that. You have to learn temperament and a kind demeanor. You know you want to be good, so why fight your good spirit so often? Why are you so addicted to the abuse and the darkness? You think other people are cry babies, but your bitchy attitude (on a bad day) at times is way more "girly" and emotional than most menstruating women.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GUDcoqZNnOo The rap by NAS at the end is ALL about star signs. I do enjoy.

Also checkout Astrology Zone - really great blog - with very accurate horoscopes and love connections.

Fall in/Fall out

 

With the seasons changing, the fall leaves bring about a lot of personal change, mixed feelings and new agendas. There might be skeletons looming, or unfinished business of the past, which will hopefully find a conclusion this September. Summer is usually a time for the 'players to play', but now that the seasons are changing and school is back in session, it is going to be a lot harder to go out and play the field. Or at least to a successful degree. September is the time of new beginnings and a lot of things either start to blossom or fade during this fall season. Fall in or Fall out. people like to hibernate during these months, especially during winter, so relationships often form during fall/winter. I call these months, 'the hook up months' because everyone gets all sappy around the holidays, and everyone gets lonely and bored during the recession of having to go back to the grind (post summer). A lot of new things are possible...especially personal goals, dreams, and aspirations.

Leo - Don't get tooo self involved this semester, you know you can cocoon yourself into self activity,which feels good. Often forgetting what you are ignoring that still does require some attention. Keep being the vivacious person you are, people are really into your energy right now, as they usually are and the modest confidence will get you far this month. So keep with the modest approach. As much as boastful lion thinks they are loved, there is always someone snickering at the shine, why give the Neanderthals fuel for their fire? Keep working hard as always. Everyone notes your ability to give your everything all.the.time.

Cancer - You know you might need a little time for rest and recovery and self discovery. You are emotionally distant lately and you need to work through this to see where you can evolve and grow from this. Find some things that you really cared about before are losing their appeal. Consider drastic change: work? travel? residency? Something is not quenched, you're itching for something - and you know it. Also, stop hiding behind your humor, how the fuck do you really feel? Explore your true emotions. Everyone loves funny but you conceal yourself in funny, it's time your heart came out of hiding!

Aquarius - You are really trying not to fall into old patterns. Sometimes you just give things chances without really seeing if your heart is in, but the caution is up now, you have the guard on and it should be there. You've been too good lately to put up with bullshit, so make good choices and don't return back to old flames or things that just 'felt comfortable'. You know its not going to work long term and let's face it, some of you players are finally ready to make something stick, for good. If you have to think about how its not good - then its not good - don't entertain possibility if its not full proof.

Aries I would say OPEN UP, but let's face it, that's not going to happen. You can't truly change the controlling nature of the Ram. They are a land animal destine to roam and find conquest for self gain. Your need to self protect will cause problems, which you will fight to avoid. Any sign of emotions and the Ram has its guard up. They are born with a shield, which covets their true feelings, feelings which are often on untapped. Work on EMPATHY and becoming capable of having a two way conversation. You have twice as many ears as you do as mouth, so you are meant to listen twice as much - and try to put yourself in the position of others. It will benefit you greatly.

Pisces - Keep trucking (err swimming)! You know your unique personality and persona/ability to empathize easily with others provokes a lot of adventures and new meetings. My advice to you is get out, move those fish feet and flex that flirty, feminine charm that drive men crazy, you know you can meet a lot of people, but its key to give someone good a chance. You have an addictive personality and are drawn to corrupt people because you piety them and want to fix them. If its broken - you can't fix it, so forget it and swim on. Stop swimming back.

Gemini - Sometimes you just really need to chill out and take a breath. You do too much. You think too much. You worry too much and yet you let too much go at the same time. You need to really take this time to focus on what is important and what you need to do for yourself that will be prosperous. New beginnings and exciting things are always in a Gem's life, but you can't fill up every minute without some retrospective self and quiet time. Some of you need to get out of town- eat.love.pray.please.

Taurus - You could also use a little spice. You do fun and exciting things but you are a creature of habit. Yes, you like it that way, its classy and it suites you, but you need to give yourself a culture shock. Break from your comfort zones, go to SEA or camping, do something a Taurus would never do. You like what you like but your stubborn ways are ready for a shift.Your love is always steady and strong because you create those solid earthy connections easily, but you crave stability, commitment and certainly in your relationships and when someone makes you question this it is quite upsetting to you. 

Libra - You are trying to make more concise decisions but your failing at it. You often don't say what's on your mind but might make a facial expression which says it all, you need to start speaking up. You are attracted to a lot of different things, but you should decide which of these things are truly important because it is going to matter at some point or reach a boiling climax. Also, be caution of  how you inquire, sometimes you think your helping but your nosy nose doesn't have a place in all affairs. Pick your battles and watch your facial expressions. Just because you don't SAY something doesn't mean you don't leave an impression.

Scorpio - Will keep this short and sweet to honor your sasync, cryptic ways. No one is a mind reader, so start speaking up. Your communication skills suck. No body is inside your head so nobody knows what your thinking. A man/woman can only fix what you tell them. You building stuff in your head is only prolonging the personal happiness, which you do deserve. Your a good person, but sometimes its OK to let others know about it. To those sexy, hard working, hustling, Independent Scorpio ladies, go on you - you give women a good name.

Virgo - You are not superior to anyone and you wouldn't likely admit you think this about yourself but you do. You are the judge Judy of the crew and sometimes it gets tiring. You really need to think about what you want, and try to stick to your decisions. You think you're so practical and unemotional but really your impulsive outbursts and bitchy rant/raves are vocations of constant, constant emotions. You are the only female sign in the zodiac - you are the bitch - but you can be a beautiful one - so try to be happier, nicer, friendlier - people are dying for this from you so why not make others feel good? Oh, that's right i forgot you are totally selfish...:) 

Sag - You are very capable of living a life of balance. You have a great sense of what's truly important and you are very good to yourself these days as you should be. Stop worrying about 'what could be wrong with you' - you're fine. Don't nit pitch. Give something or someone a chance, even if your scared of the emotional aspects of love, there is something waiting in the wings...but you must go on the hunt first. Start planning your next adventure - you know this is where you are most happy - having fun!

Capricorn - Everyone knows your a hard worker but you need to stop putting others down in order to make yourself feel more superior, especially in the work place. Your dominate characteristics can be overbearing in a relationship. You crave stability and are proven to be loyal but at times you need to think more about the feelings of others. You look a situations directly on how they affect you, but there is always another party involved. Think before you react, or overreact. 

September is a celebration of the Virgo, Happy Birthday! These boys and girls are usually of a very critical natural, but make excellent friends and provide impeccable advice, which is usually to the point and very grounded in nature. A practical sign, they are very capable of seeing the truth in situations, but also capable of seeing the flaws. Once this sign commits you can expect an abundance of loyalty and security. Virgo will always make you feel protected. If they compliment you it is genuine because they rarely do it.