Thursday, December 30, 2010

This Will Be Our Year

Guess what? There is life out there. It's time to remove the security blanket, get out and start taking chances. Sometimes life is about waiting but mostly life is about living, and the fear of rejection which surrounds us all only takes away from the possibility of potential life experiences. Good or bad all experiences help shape who you are and enrich your life in some aspect.You should do what you desire, make that change, call that girl, apply for that job. You are the master of your destiny in many dimensions. The only life aspect I feel we don't have the most control over is the romantic, which will happen on its on course. Many people who were never likely to take a wife have done so, just as many couples who you imagined together forever have bite the bullet. The true stripes of any person are eventurally bound to reveal and the honeymoon period fades over time. You have to man up this year and ask yourself,  "what do I really want?"  If it's the person sitting across from you with big chipmunk cheeks, flared nostrils, thin lips or buck teeth then great,  looks don't matter,but make sure it's that 'I can't live without you love' because nothing is worth the repercussion of this, unless you are merely looking for the "right now girl/guy" in which you date them knowing you will never fully comit long term.

Take the heat off the 'other' or "what I am missing" part of life. It's a new year and this means new opportunities and experiences, it also means new potential dating partners and clean slates (from looming skeleton like shit hanging in your emotional closet).  Focus less on what you don't have and more on what you do have. Yes, you might be single and just have survived the (potentially lonely) holidays, which makes you sad because T3 songs about "just wanting you for christmas" aren't apart of your snow-less reality. Relax. In a Christmas soon to come you'll get the chance to spend every penny you have trying to make your boyfriend have the best Xmas ever O-M-G. You'll get the chance to fill his stocking, tag him in dorky photos and meet his crazy family - are you really in a rush? Enjoy what you have and embrace the new year.

Below are my closing thoughts and words of astrological encouragement for the new year! Happy New Year!!! I hear it's going to be a Thumper!

The Dreamer:

Poetic,
Vibrant,
Genius 
Sensitive, sweet & overtly compliant. 

Pisces (February 20-March 20) 
I'm Doing Me - Drake
So yeah, yeah, yeah Jupiter was in your sign this year and this brought you some luck, but we all know the fish is always swimming in juxtaposing directions, which make them unmotivated, moody and unsatisfied. It has been hard to make something last here, and not just in duration but also in truth. Meaning, you don't always know how you truly feel about something, but you do know that you don't want to be without "something." There is a void within, which needs to be filled and if it is not quenched the fish will seek ex-lovers, ex-fuck buddies, drugs, alcohol, obsessive thoughts etc. As hard as it may be this year, the fish should work on letting go, not giving up not giving into the sweet temptations of the painful past. They often say, "you teach people how to treat you." Young fish, this should be your mantra! No, not everyone is going to like you and it will be tough, but a lot of other people will and do, but you have to start looking in the right direction. You waste so much time bringing the pains of the past into the new and therefore miss opportunities with men who are in fact intrigued by you. You have a mystic, goddess-like aura. Men find you charismatic and sexy. Fish men are persistent and fast talkers and know how to woo with sweet nothings - each sex in this sign has a lot of potential -- they simply must learn how to channel their energy, believe in themself and pick a partners which will actually benefit them in the long run. Self loathing and self criticism never got anybody anywhere. Stop feeling sorry for yourself, and start seeing what the people who love you see in you. 2011 is a odd number, and Pisces is a odd, mutable emotional gamble. I feel good things for the fish. I sense a high rise is on the way, and if not, it will comes in waves, and you know you're the best in the water -- roll with it, your surf is going to come. Remember it's just you and your board on the road to happiness whatever else you attract is just sunshine on the water.

The Mastermind 
The Weirdo

 Aquarius (Jan 20 - February 18)
 Pursuit of Happiness- Kid Cudi (Steve Aoki Remix)
This year has been a whirlwind for the Aquarius, though as a mutable sign, there are likely those who did not feel the retrograde of planetary interactions with Mercury. Aquarius may have seen sides of his/herself that they've never before encountered. A mean side which other people don't recognize or a lack of desire towards things they used to care about. Some Aquarius people may feel like they've convinced themselves that they have exactly what they want when in truth they are not satisfied. Others are simply so secretly unhappy that they seek, seek, seek and play, play, play until they lack time to address emotional wounds, which haven't properly healed. It's time to take some space to check yourself and be true with your own personal aspirations. Do you ever feel like your living in a bubble? Well maybe it is time to pop it, to break the shell, and let someone else in--someone NEW! If you are all over the place with the opposite sex, like the water carrier often is, try putting your energy into one person and see where that takes you. When you are ready or perhaps when the right person comes along you will give into every first physical and emotional impulse you feel (without over thinking or having some emo "sex talk") maybe then you will let yourself go and give into what you really want-- without worrying about what others think. The reputation you have with others is not the thing that makes you, you should never be ashamed of something you've done (or someone) or something you've lost. you are great just on your own and it doesn't matter if people give you the validation that you are all the time. Regardless, for what's it's worth, they do think you are great! Sometimes they just might not understand what's going on in your head or how you truly feel about something. You elusive, aloof, detached, lovable mother fucker. I see a lot of knots untangling for the Aquarius in the new year, just keep your head up, and your mentally positive -- you will become untangled!
               
                                           The Good
The Bad
The Perfect


Taurus (Arpil 20- May 20)
 Fuck You - Lily Allen
2011 will be about Taurus coming to terms with the past  and the changes you desire to make. It always takes a bull a long time to make a firm choice on what they want or think, and a lot of you have been mulling over things for a long, long, long time. It is the time to put those things in motion and makes those changes. If you really are so unhappy at work that you have to complain about it or anything all the time then quit it. You are a person who knows their self worth, you are not the type to settle with the brand of shoes your put on your feet so why settle in any other aspect? You are a dependable person, and this is the most important part of any partner to you, but you also want a little bit of finesse. Someone who is going to put as much into as you are because when you love you love genorou$ly. In a lot of ways you are a vault with your feelings and emotions, you think a lot but don't reveal all your true thoughts. It's time to speak up. Young Taurus has to relax her possessive nature, not everything can be owned and social validation is not the key to happiness. It doesn't matter what other people think about your new fur coat, it only matters that you love it. Fuck it, you work hard for it, you deserve it, and shouldn't be patient with any person who makes you contemplate their love. You can't take the dog out of the man and you certainly can't change him, but you can kill yourself trying. Stop being such a control freak!
The Comedian
The Artist
The Mama
Cancer (July 21- June 22)
 Right Hand Hi - Kid Sister 
My feelings with cancer is relationships, relationships, relationships. Cancers love relationships and every cancer I tend to meet (with the exception of a few) are in committed relationships. They prefer this, and make very good significant others. Cancers were born to nurturer, protect and counsel people. If any man is looking for a mother type or a caretaker, Betty Crocker type - - he's found his mate. Just as if she is looking for a protective, dependable boyfriend -- she's found her soul mate in Cancer. I sense the opportunities for new relationships here or the flourish of current Cancer relationships. You have been surviving well this year - the only thing that disturbs is that feeling of being over stressed to which you explode --- but that doesn't happen too often. The opposition for this side is holding onto to old ties with past loved ones. Don't be afraid to move on. You are the den mother of the zodiac and bring people together, it is okay to take more chances with your heart and let go of your protective instincts. Some cancers are really taking the next steps to evolve with their currents partners because they crave the security of a kinship. Other Cancers are wandering in a mass of unhappiness, which can be sorted in the new year if an attitude adjustment is made. Figure out what you care about and put in the work -- don't be a lazy home body, you can do better. 
The Paper Chaser
The Spark-plug
Sagittarius (November 22- December 21)
Sweet Stunt Positions - Days of Weezy
It's time to travel or make new pursuits. You will just get bored otherwise. What's on your new agenda? I know there is something. I feel this sign also needs to ask what they want for themselves. If you do travel, take the time to get retrospective with your self and analyze your person passions. If you are in a relationship, trust your partner a little more. Let them in a bit more emotionally. It will be prosperous to you and your significant other and provide the potential for a new kind of closeness. Also, don't be afraid to splurge a bit this year, listen to your more impulsive less financially practical side and treat yourself right. Do something you love -- just once-- and don't feel guilty about it after if it's a greasy food. You strive for perfection far too much in your life and you've got to stop. It's time to take a momentary approach to live and live in what you feel -- not what you think you feel. I feel like a lot of you are involvement in things and people that don't actually appease you to the fullest. I sense a lot of settling in this sign, which needs to appease itself because trouble will only ensue. You are a person of great adventure who seeks stimulation in others. You might be a certain way, but you don't want your partner to be exactly like you. You want them to be up for excitement and excursion but, emotionally you need a few difference. For starters you might be a very capable, independent Sag woman, and therefore require a partner who gives above and beyond that. If you are a frugal Sag you might need a more frivolous partner who surprises you and forces you to let down your guard. Also, a partner who is going to bring your internal feelings out in a beneficial way. You are constantly on the hunt but this year it is OK to take a moment and think about what it is that you are truly after, and when you do figure it out, don't hide behind your normal comforts. Whether that be staying home all the time or hanging out with the same friends you always see -- stepping away from the norm and the comfort will force you to demand more for yourself and for your life. Don't stop believing -- your dreams are passionate and possible.
                                          The Loner
The Brain

             The Methodist
Virgo (August 23 - September 22)
 Closer - Kings of Leon
Wow Virgo! You have managed to shock us all this year, but the deviant and unpredictable behavior of a Virgo is always excepted. Many non-committal Virgo men have become sprung, some are even in relationships. Virgo is the master of hating on every girl until he finds a girl he considers "wholesome" enough for him (without making him feel too shitty about himself of course.) Virgo is already hard on themself, so in their earlier, immature days they might desire a partner who simply thinks the sun shines out of their ass. The slack of dating someone "better" than them is too hard for their ego to take. If you are in fact better than Virgo, they will just put you down. Realizing later in life that criticism is their nature. As much as they don't want ANYONE telling them their business, they do benefit greater from a constructive lover who is harder on their partner, thus making him/her a better man or woman. Virgo wants to be the best they can be and they should focus on being with someone who makes them feel like they are becoming better, more evolved, more visibly happy, more comfortable and more assertive. The Virgo doesn't always shine to the degree which they are capable of because they shy away from themselves. Intelligence runs high in this sign and their ability to criticize is their gift. They know how to figure you out -- they can see right through you, but will scare the moment you try to see through them. Do not tell a Virgo their business because their stubborn side will never fess up fault even if they know deep down you might be right. This year focus on what you want -- some of you are finally on the right path, no point in letting petty, immature or dramatic distractions get in the way of your future success. Work hard and don't fall into old patterns of settling for anything less than exceptional.


"I'm cooler than that guy" 
 Libra (September 23 - October 22)
We Be Steddy Mobbin' - Lil Wayne feat Gucci Mane
You can be so lovable when you want to be. You need to roll with this breezy attitude more and always. Take more chances but, also be more direct in your approaches. You make it so obvious when you want something but you don't act on it. You will shy away or say something vague and completely destroy your own chances of getting what you want or saying how you really feel. You don't have to avoid yourself in order to avoid the outcome of the actions. People love you but they get annoyed by your need to do right by everything. You can't, so do good by what it's truly important. If you forget what that is - as yourself what it is? Learn to form an opinion that isn't wishy washy, this gets annoying, especially in relationships. People do want to know the truth even if it might cause conflict, but you have to be prepared to go into a few battles. You can't avoid everything you don't want to talk about. Young Libra, stop being embarrassed by things you can't control. Focus on what you can and learn to let the small things go. People don't realize how secretly you are hard on yourself (perhaps a tad insecure too), so this year you need to cut yourself some slack. Learn to take a compliment and know it's sincere. Learn to let people love you both sexually and emotionally and not just one or the other. You borrow love in the sense that you get it from various people and places but a little focus onto one person or project wouldn't hurt.
                                                                 The Sexy
                                                   The Stinger
                                                
  Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)
  Black and Blue - Mike Snow
Your patience is appreciate when you exercise it. When you don't  -- watch out. Patient, sweet you is more successful than wicked you. For some, something really big and great is due, for others you need to stop enabling what you think you love/need. You don't really need it. You cannot make something or someone change through your own coaxing and fantastic ideals -- people need to devise remedies for themselves first. Your remedy is not curing the sick, sorry Scorpio your just too selfish of a person to do that. So don't love possessively - take the time to think about yourself (get back to that person if you've lost touch with it) and find that fun, free, spirit within yourself that will never settle on their desires. Giving into temptation is easy here because the attachments you make are not able to be broken with minimal effort. Tread water with your feelings, and try to bring them out, but in a tactful way. Not in a drunk rage. Not with anger or with drama but with sincerity. Also you need to love what you do so starting mastering ways in which you can achieve this. Take some time off if you've been feeling overworked and learn to forgive those that have done you wrong. Life is too short to dislike someone over something trivial. Don't lose faith in the people who care about you because it not worth it. Learn to trust people a bit more. So what if they let you down? It will only built your character in a positive way if you chose to let it.

King of The Jungle
The Star
Leo (July 23- August 22)
 Blazin - Nicki Minaj feat Kanye West
You are never without love in your life and you need to focus on that. Forget the love lost in the past, continue to move forward and embrace the light that is waiting for you. You were born to shine, but it is time to figure out where you could really make the best use of your light. What are you passions? What really makes you happy? Leo is a seriously hard worker, but will get lazy if it is not something they LOVE to do. They need to feel like they are kicking ass at their job but they also need to enjoy it. You have so many talents and have a lot of opportunities this year for exciting changes. New relationships becoming serious, marriage proposals, fireworks on the beach. Leo needs to find a happy temperament and learn to let the past die. If the the ego gets bruised the lion/lioness will not digress until they feel redeemed but, sadly there will always be those situations which (the king of the jungle) cannot control. Let those fucking bygones be bygones and move on - there is a lot of good in store if you focus your energy onto it!

The Champ 
 Capricorn (December 22-January 19)
 All of The Lights - Kanye West
You tire yourself with daily stresses and work routine but, it is time to ask yourself if you are truly happy? There are days you don't feel alive (especially in your eyes) and this needs to change. You need to start ticking and not fear the repercussions of your internal clock. Stop worrying that you are getting old or being jealous of people younger than you.You never let others know all your private thoughts, just as there is a wall between you and what you want. Work on removing this wall and accept that life isn't always going to follow the demands of your structured lifestyle or daydreams. You are ideal and seek idealism, and you can find this if you stop trying to seek better in both others and yourself. You are enough. Capricorn like Cancer is a big, long-term relationship sign. Casual sex rarely works here and most Capricorn men have had at least one long-term serious love in their past. It's great that the milk goat possesses a need for stability and solid, loyal friendships but seeking new adventures is key here. Even if it means staying in your boring six year relationship and doing something out of the blue together. Whatever you do Capricorn, the success you seek in life is noted-- just add a dash of spice and you'll be smooth sailing!

First In Line

 Aries (March 21- April 19)
  Trust - The Generationals
You have sexual behavior and personal thoughts, which you share with no one. There is a level to which you will love a person and then you cut off. Your pride interferes with your heart on many levels. Your emotional distance is your biggest downfall because you don't truly know how to fight for the things you need in life. Instead you seek plan, work and adventure to fill you with endeavors which make you feel more complete yet, your not truly complete with yourself. Your stubborn streak needs to be erased and you need to know that being the best isn't everything. You aren't always going to win every fight, people won't always let you wear the pants and your not always right. Letting this guard down will allow people to see your lovely, charming, intelligent and fun side, which doesn't come off as competitive or arrogant. You are very good at playing the part. Sweet you may seem, but beneath that lies a desire to be deviant, and perhaps a tendency to be insincere. It is time to be real with yourself. Be fair to your partner, if you know something you are doing or aren't doing is hurting them -- try to fix it. If you love him/her are they really worth hurting? Lying to? Is it worth lying to yourself? Gut check time Aries!

The Pretty,

 
Two Faced,
 
Gift. 

Gemini (May 21-June 22)
 Only Girl In The World - Rhiannon
This sign is so fricking mutual it is frightening. You never know what you are going to get here -- anything is possible (especially regarding the variety of personality types), and because anything is possible the Gem has the ability to get really out of control. 2010 wasn't your best year. Sure maybe you had some good jams, partied, slept with some hotties and took some cute pics. Maybe you did really well at work, did volunteer work or organized a sweet fashion show, but it doesn't mean you are complete. Some of you are simply unhappy and surfacing for ways and things to appease the itch of having to deal with what is really bugging you. You don't have to be funny and witty all the time. The need to please needs to decrease this year (its phony and people see through it.) Consider this as you work towards making yourself happy (in a more naturalistic fashion) without the party following behind you. Don't hide behind a guy/girl or behind sex because you know that won't fix it. You are all generally attractive and flirtatious and thus attract a lot of suitors, friends and secret admirers, but you need a deep mental connection. Stop going for the hunk, he's not your knight -- Tits Maggee is not your beauty queen. Steer away from the vain --- you know you like pretty things and are the best sign to acknowledge detail (Virgo is big on detail as well), but you will more happy in the long run with a partner who can make you laugh and keeps up with your intelligence. Which let's face it (in it's own right) is pretty up there!

Tuesday, December 7, 2010

Santa's Secret Sex Signs

The cold has a way of making you think that you simply cannot get hot enough, but oddly it also evokes a need to be warm metaphorically though the expression of love. To feel love, to express love, make love, make new friends, get a new job, take a crazy trip, and do, cheesy, traditional holiday inspired activities. I become nostalgic with the notion of certain traditions and holiday experiences, which are coming up. For example, I always associate snow with emotional chaos, intensity and change. Perhaps you can acknowledge a weird winter pattern or superstition of your own. I encourage you to look at where you were this time last year compared to the current year. How have you changed or digressed? Are you wiser? Happier? Is there something to look forward to? Is there something or someone holding you back?
 Anticipation is life’s gifts. Not knowing what can happen, or what might not, mystery IS the key to good living. Be extra cheesy and think of life as a Christmas gift, you don’t know what those pretty, well wrapped boxes contain. Just as you do not know what life contains for you. So cast bad days away because there are still good days to come. And for those pounding away at school – the hard work of this will also pay off. Once you are done you have weeks off to get your alcohol tolerance back up and you won’t even have to pick up a single textbook if you don’t want to. Bitching about work never did anyone any good so spend that time working instead, you’ll be surprised to see how much you can accomplish if you simply shut up and put your mind to the task at hand.

Santa's Secret Sex Signs


Aquarius (Jan 20-Feb 18) - I KNOW
Rules : Shins and Ankles  
Aquarius guy is a closet hypersexual –-they are attracted to everything. The Aquarius man (The Visitor) is popular for being an 'equal opportunists' simply meaning that they admire beautiful things all over the spectrum: different shapes, colors and sizes. Water Carriers are attracted to variety (as they are capable of finding something beautiful in everyone) –- they like pretty things, but are also the types to find odd things attractive, things which others might not. For example, they could dig the spunky girl with hot pink and purple hair or the unique face tattoo. They aren’t always up for the conventional conquest because they are naturally attracted to the abstract. The weirder the better. So be prepared for odd taboo or quirky comments in the sack. He might be thinking about other people while he’s nailing you…with such an active mind Aquarius can’t always control his sexual inhibitions just as he can't force them. If his head isn't into it neither is his dick. Thinking too much leads to satisfactory performance by Aquarius and perhaps a little too much conversation. 


Aquarius girl (The Vision) will be surprisingly freaky. “Lady in the street- freak in the bed” syndrome is active here. Her level of natural day to day intelligence (or feminist perspectives) often make men think she isn’t that sexual of a person, but she is, and can be very secretive about all of her true sexual encounters. The type to say we “messed around”, but we all know what that really means. Like him, she will intellectualize love and sex to the point of driving herself crazy. Sometimes their thought processes interfere with the natural growth of Aquarius's love quest.
 

Scorpio (Oct 23-Nov 21) - I DESIRE
Rules : The Genitals/Sex Organs 
In the case of the Scorpio man ( The Stranger)– he literally expresses his very being through his penis – emotional dick. Out of every male zodiac sign this one is the most likely to have difficulties “arriving” or even getting wood because his brain, his dick and his heart are all one. He may be able to stay hard (always), but will have troubles cuming especially if alcohol is involved (but let’s face it, every man in the zodiac is a victim of this). He loves sex (though a A-sexual Scorpio guy is never uncommon), and it’s NOT a personal thing, but this happens. The penis in the case of a Scorpio male is highly emotional, which is why sometimes he can’t get up for it. In this case, it might be personal, the mind and the penis have to be on the same page in order for this to work right. He’s a sexual being, don’t get him wrong, this is how he expresses his love, but sometimes timing is everything.

Female Scorpio (The Specimen) – will have a hard time living without sex. She will hump your leg when she is drunk. She simply just needs humps every once and again. She’s a natural grinder. She has fantasies, which she can never share with you. Her sexual fulfillment is really important to her in a relationship. Be ready to serve up sex on the regular if you expect to keep this woman happy.

Pisces –(Feb 19-March 20) - I BELIEVE
Rules: The feet 
The fish doesn’t know when to stop. Sex becomes an addiction here. They will treat it like they do Mary Jane, booze, and nicotine – anything that they feel they have to have – they will act like they need to have it. Combined with booze the sexual need will only increase and become more desperate. Pisces needs compassion and tenderness – they can be chatty, but crave the time of ‘shutting up’ in which sex can be a silent expression of emotions. “Ssssssh be quiet cuz your body talks better when your silent.” Pisces guy (The Drifter) will often be just like that - here today - gone tomorrow. Constantly in an emotional state of fluctuation, the male fish will flee to and from comforts. He may never know exactly what he wants, and this means that he will never be able to reject you to the degree that you need him to in order to move on.
 Pisces Girl (The Dream): Will do the opposite of the male fish. She still will cling to anything that gives her what she "believes' she needs, though often it is not the right investment for Miss. Fish to make. Physically, Pisces women are usually very feminine and attract many suitors sexually, but her apparent sexuality will drive men in and out. Fish girl - don't use your sexuality to get what you want - demand friendship first, you have a lot of powerful qualities that will provide to be prosperous to you if you take the time to engage properly. Remember in being the master of "I believe" you can re-direct your own beliefs onto something positive if desired. If you believe you deserve bad guys or shitty sexual experiences -then this is what you will get. 
Sag (Nov 22- Dec 21) – I AM
Rules: The Hips
In terms of Sag man (The Maverick)There might be a short wind here – there is a lot of passion instilled in this being, but this passion can’t always hold up and will lose sail quickly if over stimulated. Sag is the sign of stimulation and the constant need of it, so the desire can be short lived just as the pursuit for it will die in similar degrees. Sag can also become soooo passionate that they can't hold out. Sag is the most likely to silence and bury their personal desires, which is why Sag man needs a partner who can bring out his level of perception. They often want things but aren’t always capable of vocalizing what they want – instead they will accept what they think they want in the sack. Sag man needs a woman he can talk to. Someone who can challenge his brain and increase his aptitude for love making.
Sag Girls (The Maven) - don’t sacrifice your own pleasure to please your man. Don't "become" the girl in bed you think your partner wants. You live in the world of fantasy and dreams, and know, better than most what your fantasy boyfriend is - don't be afraid to communicate these desires. You don't have to please your partner to the point where you lose self pleasure. Be the selfish girl that you know you can be!
Taurus ( April 20-May 20) I HAVE– 
Rules: The Throat (ever wonder why you like your voice?)
The bull is suppose to be the nympho of the Zodiac – in that he/she can never get enough. While this may be true in some cases, Taurus still has a preferred window for action. As a Taurus woman (The Ideal), her love making might become completely scripted and scored to a routine, which will bore in time. Think outside the box Taurus, and find new ways that are exciting and fresh for you and your partner to explore. If she’s “tired” she’s tired and you may not be getting any. She also is a true fan of the longevity of a partner. If he can't go long enough for her to 'get hers' then she is NOT truly satisfied. She can be rough too, she’s not the cheesy “make love to me” type, though every Taurus enjoys some sensuality from time-to-time.  She also enjoys some aggression! You might hear a Taurus girl say things like, "I'm alway down", but that's not true, she's down if she feels like being down and that usually isn't when she feel esthetically compromised. She wants to be perfectly put together for her partner from her nails down to her toes.

Male Taurus (The Idol) has the ability to be great in bed, mind blowing, but only if they are interested in you will they explore the oral world and beyond. Ladies, this man will likely avoid your mouth for kisses just to get his – this doesn’t mean he is into – simply that he is into getting off and then getting out. He can like it rough and animalistic – hair pull, butt slap…possible *bite*
This is the sign of stage-5 clinger :
 
keep in mind, sleeping with Taurus could very well mean you are calling them your SO within the next week. If Taurus guy likes you he WILL be on you like white on rice, he will not let up. Just as she will play implicit mind games to get what she wants. This is the sign of possession – if she think you are hers – watch out - you're mine!


Gemini (May 21-June 20)– I THINK
Rule: The Hands 
Distraction is Gem’s worst aspect here – they are "touchy feely" flirts. Even if they don’t cheat-cheat- they are mental cheaters. In bed, they will likely be very giving – Gem’s use sex as an emotional expression but also as a form of ‘feeling better.’ “If I got laid I might feel better.” They need a certain level of attention, which they often satisfy through endeavors with the opposite sex. Mental connections are key in achieving a true sexual connection with a Gem. They get off on big brains, witty humor and a chemistry of the mind.Gemini guy (The Goodfellow) will have an emotional layer that speaks to a feminine nature, which means he might 'act like a bitch' in certain situations, whether that be in the sack or during the break up process. You might wonder where his balls are from time to time.
Gem girl  (The Gift)– you don’t need to get laid to get rid of those icky, insecure feelings. You might get off, but do you still feel like a winner on the walk home? Sex isn’t a problem solver or a form of Prozac – like all chemically induced feelings – it will fade.

Aries  (March 21-April 19)– I AM
Rules:The Head (giving or getting it)
The most likely to fuck you and feel nothing or even fuck you for years and still feel nothing. Aries man (The One) is the least likely to form emotional attachments, but when they do – they are super hard to get rid of. Don’t expect cute shit in bed or lots of loving comments because they will not come, and when they do you’ll blame it on the goose, blame it on the Henny, blame it on the alcohol. Aries man is an athletic lover, he flexes his 'manhood' in bed. He is into himself and therefore doesn't like to show weakness in front of a lady. He will hide from her what he is ashamed of - anything that makes him feel less of a man. He sees women as sex, and identifies with them as everything opposite of his masculinity. He recognizes her sexuality before he recognizes her as a person. Aries men are prone to be misogynistic in some aspect, and will exercise this control either in bed or other dynamics of the relationship.
Aries girl (The Original) – she’s a natural porn star. Seriously, you could film the performance – though you might need to turn down the volume. She’s another attention whore at heart, so she’ll want to be the star of the show (or any show really.) She’ll take- take- take if she can but when invested, or truly in love, she will give- give- give- give. Or give because she “likes it” sometimes its really just for her and not as much about you as you think it is. She needs her sex like a daily remedy and is often known for shacking up with partners who are 'not good enough' to exercise her own need for power. She's the best. First string. She'll be nice enough to let you be a close second.

Capricorn (Dec 22-Jan 19) –I USE
Rules:  knees (you on yours)
This is another sign who truly needs to step away from the routine love making and step into a more creative pursuit of love. While there are some wild, saucy Capricorns who do manage to fuck outside the box, out of all the earth sign, Virgo is the most interested in switching lanes and trying new things in bed. Virgo is most interested in the pleasure of their partner. Capricorn is hard to break from their comforts so in acknowledging this - you will be able to expand and please your partners in new capacities. Capricorn guy (The Stickler) will put work and stress before his sex life. His decision are often over calculated and he misses out. Try to experience something more impulsive. Stop going for the safe place - sometimes its okay to be late for work or sleep without the comfort of your night light.

Capricorn Girl  (The Sleeper): Your excuses of being tired are getting tired. You need to wake up and take your desires by the reigns. You are a secret fantasy freak, and you unlike most, etch the details of your dream man in your head. You want a perfect partner, but you also want a perfect looking partner. The elements of well bred, well dressed and well financed suit you well, but it's time to look beyond the list on paper and into the realities of who can you really, truly connect with? 


Virgo – (August 23-September 22) - I ANALYZE
Rules: The Stomach
As expressed above, the Virgo doesn’t want things to get boring or predictable in bed – though they might – and he may act comfortable with this, but not for long. Virgo man (The Vehicle) wants you to lose all sexual inhabitation, be totally free and committed to the moment. He wants to please you. Like his coined alias "the Vehicle"  - he wants to drive you. Virgo is the sign of service, and he will gladly give you a tune up. Virgin by brand maybe, but this zodiac virgin is anything but an innocent, inexperienced virginal bitch – if anything, they will be masters of the sex – as long as they are in the mood for it and you are willing to be the apprentice. Guys for this sign are known for being totally un-sexual and sleepy once they arrive, so get the best of him before he blows the load.

Virgo Girl (The Vessel): She may appear very shy and innocent, possibly a clear representation of her virgin symbol, however much like Virgo man, she wants to feel the heat between the sheets. She likes privacy, but once she feels comfortable, and perhaps that no one is around - she will come alive. She is a vixen in her own right. She will get her pleasure, but at the same time provide service to you. A Virgo woman, is always very helpful.


Leo  (July 23-Aug 22)– I WILL 
RULES: The Heart 
This is the true lover of the zodiac – you will feel the passion in his/her kiss. You will feel protected by their hold. For Leo guy (the natural) booze will affect his abilities to arrive, but he won’t have the problem of being ‘ready to go’.  Remember, he's "a natural" and this is especially relative to love making. Leo can sex you up like Marvin Gaye. There might be a struggle for power with certain Leo men who won’t like you to be too dominate in bed. Top dog syndrome applies here. Yes, Leo boys do enjoy girl on top and oral pleasure but sexually, there is a part of any Leo who still needs to be the center of attention.He wants to 'do you.'He also wants you to fantasize about him, and only him. He won’t like to hear about “other guys” or see you standing next to a Hotrod calendar licking a hunk.Still he's too fucking proud to ever admit he's jealous.

Leo Girl (the Knockout) - She's one of the best flirts in the zodiac. She knows how to exert her talents and good traits well, even if she's the shy Leo, she knows how to play her cute card. Like Leo guy she'll want to take charge in bed. She'll perform tricks, she'll juggle, dress up as a fruit basket. She'll do whatever - as long as it satisfies her personal desires and drama. Big drama or small drama there is something special and paramount about love making with a Leo. She is a firework. She is a vibrant spectacle, capable of putting on a very good sex show.  


she wants her cake AND a cupcake too!
Libra( September 23- October 22) -I BALANCE
RULES: The Butt/the Back
Seduction is often a pastime to the Libra, who enjoys the art of seduction/flirtation just as much as they enjoy sex. This is the switch hitter of the zodiac. They’ll take top or bottom – whichever hits the tone of the mood. They are open, free-spirited and uninhibited on their flight. Libra guy (The Character) is like Peter Pan on a regular night, desiring to stop by many different windows, and then fly off yet again. Libras are very affectionate, and will go to great lengths to please. As long as they are being pleased back, Libra does not have a problem with this. Keeping the balance is key here, and a motive, but sometimes the balance will be off. Libra might be down on themselves or feeling like they can’t make up their mind about their feelings, and with this the sexual flame with flicker, but keep in mind, Libra is a warrior of sorts, who always finds their way back onto the right back. They are excellent at playing stupid too, but they always know better, trust me, they always know.

Libra Girl (The Charm) : Try to pull away from tentative thought. You weight potential outcomes out too often and usually you don't need to be worried. You should vocalize and express your needs in bed. You know you have a resilient nature, but your partner is not a mind reader in any aspect. If annoyed, you should say so and not stay mum at the fear of rocking the boat. Libra girl is also capable of being a true player if desired because she like Libra guy wants to  peep inside many different windows. 

 
Cancer (June 21 –July 22) - I FEEL
Rules: The Breasts
This sign, like Pisces is sensitive to life and this involves his ability to get an erection at trying times (or even when he feels nervous/intimate/really likes you). Performance anxiety can occur here. Cancer girl (The Pearl) won’t want to fuck you if she’s angry with you, and Cancer guy (The Player) wont even be able to get it up. Cancer needs to be feel protected in bed, and wants to believe the connection is about the lions and the feelings.
Cancer’s not the biggest on one night stands so don't let "the player" title fool you. Most Cancer guys are one-woman men, though there are players, and wandering eye dogs in every sign including this one. Cancer is "the player" because he has a playful nature, a strong sense of humor and a zesty approach to life. Women are drawn to him naturally.  He is the master of sensuality. He might also be the type to throw out the romance or really cheesy lines in bed. He has a dirty side but its coupled with sweetness, and everything you desire, right?

Regarding the body parts which each sign rules, it has been documented that each is an erogenous zone, so explore this revenue if interested. Though, I am sure not EVERY Virgo is turned on by a tummy tickle etc. 

Check out this amazing book called "Sextrology" by Starsky + Cox for a deeper read on the star signs :


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