Friday, September 20, 2013

Astrological Love Styles


 
We do not understand where other people are coming from. Sometimes it is not easy to see behind the intentions of other people. When we don't know things, we resort to assuming the worst, even before we hear the truth. People spy things on social media sites and automatically jump to conclusions. We might even find ourselves invading the privacy of others in order to reassure ourselves that there is nothing to worry about.
 
The person who seeks for reasons to deploy angst often gets hurt the most. When you seek betrayal, pain or anguish (even if that’s not the initial intention) that is what you are going to get. The anxious energy that you bring into the situation is coded and every action, word or text message is sent from this place of distrust and anxiety.





 The relationship vapidly will become saturated in negativity. It will end. It is impossible to have success in love if you are constantly lacking trust or even worse, forcing yourself to lack trust. Do not sacrifice your inner values just to be with someone. Love can only excuse so much. 
 
With this in mind we pose the question: do you really know your partner's Astrological Love Style?

 





To poke fun at this notion, What’s Your Birthday? Has provided Astrological insight into what your partner is really thinking/feeling when it comes to privacy, matters of the heart and their overall  disposition.

 If you are born within 10 days of the upcoming or previous sign, you are a cusp so read both!


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ARIES MAN(March 21--April 19)

 He’s no incline to letting people in to begin with. It’s not to say that he doesn’t want love, he does, he might, but he’s also holding out for something special. If Aries Man is holding onto you—this is meaningful in itself! If Aries man decided to love someone he does, but it has to be done on his own terms. Sometimes Aries man does not “decide” but rather falls for you without his control. Regardless, Aries man will always require personal space. Aries man will always be a bit selfish. Aries man will always break the mould. He is very generous with his money when he’s got it, but he doesn’t always have the sappy words you might crave from a lover or a friend. Aries man has romantic moments, but he yearns for friendship, kinship, hot sex and intellectual stimulation. Aries man has many bedroom desires, but he also desires to be challenged mentally. If you take his slow-moving ways and disinterest in commitment, personally, you are a fool. This guy can take forever to crisp, but your loyalty of his unique perspective will only solidify why he asked that question in the first place. Even you never thought he would, and even if he said that he never wanted to marry. Aries man will magically “forget” about the plans he wasn’t that down for in the first place, he will sit out and focus on the few people that he trusts, but this doesn’t mean you don’t have his affection. He’s different, but once you stop sizing him up against the status-quo, and appreciate him against him standards—you will realize that you’ve got a good thing!
 

ARIES WOMAN
 (March 21--April 19)

She’s the type to have all her ducks in order. She is waiting for the right duck to swim in, or in her case: the best duck chasing after her! Aries woman wants the best. Yes, she’s entertained some losers in her time, but she never wants anything serious from someone who can’t swim in her lane; the fast lane. Aries Woman is self-sufficient. If she ignores you or can’t take your phone call—this is because her life does not revolve around her love relationship. Aries Woman is usually very career and goal driven. Love is a part of the package, but love is not the entire package. She wants to get married, but isn’t the type to gush about it. Aries Woman is set firstly on establishing herself into a worthy commodity and THEN she can pay attention to you. Aries Woman needs constant affection and physical loving. She might not be the best at romance (though thoughtful and caring) she does expect the ultimate romance in return. Aries Woman will always see your faults, which is why you should not give her reason to become unimpressed. Don’t embarrass her in front of her co-workers, don’t forget an important holiday or yell at her for being too busy—accept the greatness that is the Aries Woman OR go home. Aries woman will rarely change for anyone, and if she does, it is usually because she is in head over her heels. When head over heels, Aries woman can soften into sweetness. In this case, all the control, which Aries woman had worked to build, is lost, When lost, she becomes a puppy to her romantic interest and might even put them first!

  

SAGITTARIUS MAN(November 22--December 21)

He’s busy but it’s nothing personal. Sag man is a bit of a “business man”, he’s chasing after that paper and it’s mapped out in six different directions. This is to say that he does a lot or is involved in a lot of different things. You might think this means other women, which could be true, but a mature Sag man (in love) is generally loyal to his Boo. Sagittarius man doesn’t want to be pestered in love. He does the pestering. If you let him he will be needy of you, and in spirit of helping you improve your flaws. Sag man can’t help but seek perfection, and when he looks at something he wants it to shine (as perfectly as he does--or at least as perfect as he thinks he does) he tries to communicate this. Sagittarius man can have a diluted sense of confidence or a diluted sense of sense, which can make emotional intimacy rough. You can’t be the one to falter at this. You have to master emotional intimacy or at least protection and security if you plan to love this man long-term. This being said, if he’s busy, he’s busy, just don’t bother him. Even if this means he is out at a party with other females—let it be. You will only wake the temper in this man, and trust. You do not want to do that. He’s part business man, but also part gypsy. He wants to wander and he wants to place his bets, but remember this man is The Archer, he is on the hunt for a rare find. What he can get easily
will be disposed of. He needs random adventures and seclusion to feel agile—don’t take it personally, Sag man can only be aware of what is in front of him. If you aren’t there, he’s not thinking about it too much. If he’s with you, he trust you, and knows that if he wants to, he can always see you later.
 

SAGITTARIUS WOMAN(November 22--December 21)

She’s part man-part-amazing. Yes, she’s sexy, well traveled and confident, but she can open her own doors, pitch her own tent and pour her own beverage. Regardless, she won’t be bossy if her man attempts to master any of these things for her. Secretly, she’s a wet blanket for romance, but most people would never guess it. She probably comes off like the workaholic, bossy, control-freak, money-hungry type, but she’s actually all about the best value. The best value doesn’t come easily, which is why she is OK to wait. She’s not picky, she just knows what she wants – there is a big difference. She might be on the hunt longer than most, but she’s out there, and she’s not afraid to get stung, as long as you don’t leave any emotional bruises. You might wonder what she’s thinking, but in this case, it always best to just ask, check-in, shoot her a text –she’s not going to make the first move. If she does, she might be in the fast-pace lane to get over someone else, but otherwise she will bear on caution. Sag is protective of the people they love and themselves. Sag is OK on their own, they want to be in-love, but not with just anybody. If Sagittarius woman gives you the chance and you really like her: shake her tree a little bit. Don’t play the game knowing that she will be. Sag Woman is a gamer, she knows how to play, but while she may play the field hard, with her heart, she runs a soft game. If you want in, you will have to play a little harder, dig a little deeper and work a little bit in order to get her to open up.
 

LEO MAN(July 23--August 22)

He’s a master of loyalty, which is why he won’t lead you on if he’s not into you. He’s charming and a flirty, but generally harmless. He’ll poke fun at questionable places with people—only because he can, and because they likely know the nature of his game: hilarious, but harmless. Despite this inherent loyalty, Leo Man loves attention and will entertain it even if he is in love. Leo man won’t physically engage in these flirtations if they are truly, truly in love. Leo man has ultimate devotion for the person he calls “baby” and would never cheat if he’s committed his heart. This is why Leo man will ignore the messages of girls he could care less for. Leo man is of the heart (Leo rules the heart) and can struggle to hook up with people without letting the heart get in the way. Truth, Leo man will contact you if he’s into you, he will. Leo man is consumed by what he loves: his job, his friends and his significant other. All of these things are an extensions of the Leo and therefore require a great deal of attention. This is why if Leo is not around, you can take it as sign that they are not that interested in you. Leo stays true to their ambitions. Don’t fall prey to their drunken stupor. Leo is a different man when in the limelight of alcohol and adoring fans. Back at the Lion’s den, Leo will divide and conquer what really matters matters and what really doesn’t doesn’t. All things aside, this man does not want drama or bad energy with you. Leo man would much rather that you still love them, even if they hurt you or didn’t love you back. Being cool is the Leo man’s mantra. When this doesn’t occur Leo man may try to kill you with kindness. Leo man will ignore you as good a you ignore him—but it will be hard to ignore him, Leo man gets noticed.

 

LEO WOMAN(July 23-August 22) 

Leo Woman loves to be in love so much that she doesn’t always recognize her pattern of falling madly in love, and then falling madly out of love. Regardless, when she finds the one, she is happy and will broadcast her love all over everything and everywhere. If she is an extroverted Lion, she will want the world to see all the cute things that her lover and everyone else does for her. A Leo lady loves attention, whether she is more bold/brazen or modest/shy, The queen Lion doesn’t do well without people to love who love her in return. She wants to make her mark—somewhere, but sometimes loses her own way when she becomes blinded by an attraction. A perfect example of an outgoing, attention-loving, Leo lady is Jennifer Lopez. Note that she doesn’t nurse staleness in any union and if she feels rebuffed by her lover, she will seek attention from others. Stability is great for this woman, but it is not the recipe for her relationship success. If things in love become too predictable or stationary for this woman, she will bore and roam elsewhere. Who knows who she is texting all the time? Or who she is talking to? This woman is capable of blowing air into many different tires at the same time. Leo lady loves to be in love, but she knows all to well how love can hurt, She almost always has her back-up. It would be rare for her to exit a relationship without a chaperon to her car. She can be flaky, so don’t think she doesn’t love you, if she forget about you. When she needs you, she will be right there like a beautiful explosion you can’t ignore. Take nothing she does to heart unless she asks you to, this woman can love many things, but the thing she loves the most is the thing she can’t bear to leave. Lucky you are, if this is you.
 

GEMINI GUY(May 21--June 20)

Gemini guy is not the type to shy away from daily texts. in fact he might even be the instigator of them. Gemini guy has a lot of feminine energy and therefore won’t be like most guys. If he says you are going to hear from him then you likely will. If for some reason plans fall out, this guy will have an explanation and a colourful apology, perhaps accompanied by dinner, flowers or gifts. This guy likes to impress his lady with hospitality. He will roll out the red carpet. He’s a communicator, but he needs to know he can talk to you, not just that you are using him to solve your problems, but that you can listen. This guy can be attracted to suitors from all walks of life, but he rests best with a person who attracts his mind. Mental connections are key, which is why this guy won’t be scared to call you on the phone or take you away for a well-planned weekend. He needs fun and stimulation too, which will involve separation and adventure. Gemini guy will start to snicker at the things he has too easily. He may manipulate them or betray them if partners becomes too centralized on the relationship itself. Gemini guy wants a partner, but  he wants a lot of other things in return, and will have friendships with other woman and many other people. Even if Gemini guy wants you to be jealous, jealousy and the actions that comes with it—will drive him away from you. Trusting him to go out on his own and do his own thing will prove to give the relationship air. An air that Gemini will need in order to breath in love; let him do whatever he wants on his phone. Don’t get it twisted, Gemini is needy of their mate, but it favours them best when their mates aren’t needy of them. Gemini is a sucker for wanting the unobtainable so even if they’ve already got you, create a world around the continent of your love; keep it interesting.
 

GEMINI GIRL(May 21--June 20)

When’s she secure in her intellects, beauties and gifts –she makes love happen. Gemini girl is going to get back to you, always, but she needs time. Chatting on the phone requires her undivided attention, something she usually does not have to give. Gemini woman is independent. She will always make time for her love, always. She’s bitchy, but tender, hard-working, sweet when she wants to be and a good-time. She’s vibrant all the time even when she’s hungry and in a bad mood. Even when she feels ugly, there is something about this woman that still glows in beauty. Gem girl radiates charm when needed, and can be pushy when she’s stressed out and needing to get things done. She’s prone to taking on more than she can handle, but somehow, always manages to handle it just right. She’s ideal about love. She wants it a certain way, from a certain type of person and at a certain time. She’s the master of planning and needs to be with someone who respects her sense of navigation. You know she’s really smitten when she starts to abandon her old ways and embrace a new way of life, which is likely influenced by the person she is with. Gemini girl is nobody’s fool, but she knows when to let things go, and she pick her battles. Gemini girl wants things to be perfect, but even when a plan is executed against her perfect expectations, she will host matters with the utmost sense of charm and generosity. She can get close, but she never lets anyone, including her partner, get too close. Gemini girl believes that a lady, acts like one and doesn’t tell her man anything that will salt your idealized image. Gemini girl will always have some secrets up her sleeve.

   

AQUARIUS GUY(January 20-- February 18)

He’s not the type of guy to do anything by the book. He wrote his own book. Aquarius guy has his own agenda. He will expect you to adjust to his ways. Aquarius guy does not change for anyone. He may settle down with the woman who tickles his fancy, but he won’t sacrifice his ultimate independence easily. He can be prone to disappearing or failing at communication in relationships. Let him be. He will be in touch with you if it is in his heart to do so, but he can’t be pegged down. He especially will not be held down by anyone who he questions. He’s a bit of a weirdo, but a loveable weirdo at that. He does things to the beat of his own drum, and usually this is a tune that everyone wants to dance along to. Don’t play the jealousy card with this guy. He doesn’t react well to “needy” in anyone, but you’ll find he has a soft spot for you if he feels like he “needs” you. Aquarius guy loves women and generally has many female friends. He can be a huge flirt, is great with the charm, but this doesn’t mean it leads anywhere later. Even if this man is capable, very capable of having charmed one-night stands, he’s also very capable of keeping his flirtations platonic. Either way, all the evil you imagine he feels towards you is likely not well fared. Aquarius guy is only mean upon reason to be. Otherwise he wants to retain friendliness with everyone, including his exes or one-night flings.
 

AQUARIUS GIRL(January 20-- February 18) 

She’s not your average damsel in distress. In fact if there is a problem she can probably fix it herself. She’s independent and feminist at heart. She knows she can keep up with the boys. She’s not afraid to be adventurous or try new things. She’s spiritual, active and intelligent. She wants to enjoy life, but might struggle in the love department. She’s a thinker and sometimes over thinks things, situations and people. She’s an excellent flirt and knows how to be cheeky, She is open to kissing a lot of frogs. Dating can be adventures here and often she will experience these adventures. She will make a call and then wash her hands of you or see you again in three years time. No hard feelings, Aquarius girl doesn’t welcome bad thoughts upon enemies, but she will harp on elements of disrespect. She knows how she should be treated and will snicker in the opposite direction if you show her an unruly side. Or she will string you along and suddenly stop hanging out with you all together. When it comes to love, Aquarius is subject to having eternal flavours and short-lived failures. Jen Aniston’s published, romantic track records speaks volumes to this assumption. She was constantly in new relationships, but did not settle for the second ‘one’ until much later. Aquarius women might want motherhood and marriage, but they don’t have time line for either—just ideals. Career, work, success and young-inspired goals are encouraged in the Aquarius world. While Aquarius views these dreams with a short time frame, Aquarius is aware that love functions by the clock it desires. If Aquarius girl likes you and you don’t feel the same from them, you can expect efforts. Even it’s nothing serious. Aquarius likes the attention and never forgets where she can always find attention if she needs it. She also knows life is too short not to take risks. 
 

LIBRA GIRL(September 23--October 23)

She wants to present herself as the most fashionable and admirable female in the room, but sometimes even Libra girl loses her footing. Libra lady can lose her way, but she usually finds something even better to rest her limbs upon. Libra lady knows how to keep the connection strong between mutual friends. She knows how to form intimate relationships with various people from various groups. Libra is the lady who could have a lover and a home full of pets, or in some Libra cases, she might allowably have a second bed mate. Libra lady loves to love and feel love, but also loves to relish in the natural pleasure of love, life and great music. Libra lady has a bit of ‘hippy chic’ in her. She sports some mixed ambitions and multi-talents. Libra can be  a productive working force that takes on too much and doesn’t know where to invest. Libra can be terrible with emotions or absolutely fabulous with them, All of this depends on the individual history of the Libra lady and what she has had to overcome in her personal trails. Libra lady doesn’t like drama, so if you have been texting or talking about a matter, which Libra has expressed very little interest in, you can expect to be ignored until things blow over. Libra lady always wants thing to blow over. Keep this in mind while you take her silence as judgment. Libra lady knows that most arguments and misunderstandings were probably best resolved by taking space.
 

LIBRA GUY(September 23--October 23)

Libra is usually Mr. Cool. If he’s not texting you it’s because his phone is dead, he lost his phone or he’s too busy jamming to answer his phone. None of this is personal. If Libra guy wants to suddenly hang out with his friends or go for a ride on his long board—it doesn’t mean he doesn’t care for. Libra guy needs a bit of personal time to breath and play because separating his couple time and his “guy time” is important to him. Libra guy will go into quiet mode when they don’t have anything nice to say. Or they will hide their hostility in humour, which usually is more hurtful than it is helpful. Emotions will scare Libra guy if he’s scared by his own emotions and he probably is. Tying down a Libra guy can take time and patience. Even the Charming Libra will feel the need to exercise his own desires. A Libra guy will always have the whim to entertain others, which is why jealousy won’t be favoured. Libra guy will simply ignore you if you get to be too much, but he will always be back if he love you. Libra guy returns to the place he feels most connected. Libra guy knows that while a person can fulfill their playful aspects elsewhere that they need to be with someone who provides more of a balance; someone who provides a greater sense of control. Libra guy doesn’t like to hurt people’s feeling so try not to think the worst of him. That being said, a younger Libra guy is more likely for wandering that leads to trouble. The maturity of any guy is marked by his years, but also through his own capabilities and his individual development. Libra guy isn’t the first to grow up, in fact he is often the Peter Pan, Lil’ Wayne, lost boy who never wants to grow up completely.
  

CAPRICORN MAN(December 22--January 19)

He’s often timely and predictable, though Capricorn men born closer to Sagittarius tend to borderline on reckless. Capricorn man has a place, time and binary for everything. If he’s left you, it’s because he feels so attractive and powerful and wishes to explore his options. Though despite the sexual conquests available to him, Capricorn man will always return to the place where his heart feels most at home. This is important, building a sense of structure, devotion and loyalty, which this hard-working man can come home to. Capricorn man supports the goals of his partner, but when personally committed, he doesn’t need everyone in his life to be of a high caliber. In fact, this man is attracted to submission. In bed and in work he likes to dominate. He can be out dominated by beauty, heart and charm. At the root he either wants someone as shrewd as he can be or someone who is much, much sweeter and will ignite his sensitive sappy side. A side that can get lost in his pompous exterior, which doesn’t always let people know that there is a softer side. Capricorn man is very much what he says he is. If he asks you for your company, he means it, and will take offence if you rebuff him on more than one occasion. He takes his time seriously and so should you. Mind you, a true testament to his love is whether or not he can relax with you. Snuggling up on the couch in comfy clothes and doing nothing. This is the most natural Capricorn can be and if he can be this way with you, well that is saying something because once this man decides to stick it is usually for great lengths, and often forever; if he can help it.
 

CAPRICORN WOMAN(December 22--January 19)

Capricorn Woman is high-class and hard-work. She’s not going to give up her ambitions just to be with you, In fact you better get some ambitions if you plan to be with her. She’s tough, but she’s tender. Not to everyone. She’s especially devoted to the people she lets in, but as she ages she finds this is fewer and fewer. For some people, she’s all about maintaining a certain reputation, which require taking a certain about of distance. In which case, she can never really be herself. In other cases, Capricorn Woman is hilarious and understood. People aren’t as intimated by her once they get to know her and see how hard she is on herself. Capricorn Woman wants the best and she wants the best in love. Though she’ll take a chance where her heart wagers. Sometimes it turns out great, other times she proves to be too capable of taking care of things on her own. She can scare away weak men, easily. She doesn’t like want she can toy with willing. She prefers a challenge. She doesn’t mind making more than you, unless, you mind. She does best with a person on her playing field, but if she loves you, she will cheer lead your goals, even if they are smaller than hers. Capricorn woman makes time for love. It may seem she puts work first, but love is want she looks forward to. Love is what she rests her feet up against. She needs love and while she may not be the first to show it, if you do, she will never forget it, and in her own time, will warm up to you just the same.
 

TAURUS GUY(April 20--May 20)

There usually are no games with Taurus guy. If he’s into you, he will be on your phone before you even expect it. He’s not scared off by sex on the first date. If he likes you sex will just bond him to you further. This guy can actually determine his like for a woman through the art of sex. He’s got basic needs and sex is one of them, but so is food, and sleep. The key to his heart is through his stomach, if you feed him, he will be more than pleased. He wants to protect you if he loves you. He can quickly turn into the Kevin Costner Bodyguard type. Taurus guy has a tendency to possess things. Taurus guy protects his prized possessions with a watchful eye. Taurus guy is manly and rugged with a very tender centre. Ruled by Venus, Taurus is often in the mood for love. In fact, this guy will prefer having a love to call his own. When we say no games, remember this. If he’s not into you he won’t be on your phone all the time and he will leave you wondering. When he’s interested there are no wonderings except maybe: wow is he needy? He can be, but he can also be smothering if he is interested and you are not. Taurus man is durable, dependable and prone to devotion. Taurus has the lowest divorce rate for a reason, they don’t like to let go and only will if they absolutely have to.
 
                   

   TAURUS GIRL                     (April 20--May 20)

Taurus girl is capable of keeping up with the boys. She probably loves watching sports, but she is still a bit of a diva. Taurus girl may have to work herself up for adventures like camping outdoors. Or she may be opposed to going all together. Taurus girl is much like Taurus guy, if she is into you, there are no questions. She will make it crystal clear, unless of course, she is scared. Taurus girl will protect the ones she loves, but she will also protect herself. Taurus girl hates to get hurt because she knows how long it will take her to get over it. Taurus girl moves slowly when it comes to big things like changing jobs or exiting a relationship. She knows how to keep herself busy and will make plans for good times and things to look forward to. She likes to get all done up and be seen in her cute little outfits. Taurus girl is a hard-worker and a strong partner. She is often the strength behind many immature men who need guidance, durability and support. Taurus girl will stick around even when she’s not getting fed. Being alone isn’t always her favourite cup of tea. She likes to be entertained and enjoys social affairs with trusted friends. Make no mistake that she will be messaging you or displaying her love online. She can’t help it. Love is the air that she breathes. Therefore if love is in the air, it is all this woman can see. If love mates are scarce she will care for a pet or be very involved in her friendships, but regardless relationships are big here, Taurus generally will have an entourage, even if that entourage is rather small. Taurus learns over time that she prospers from intimate relationships which she can trust. She shouldn’t pretend she can be casual about thing because it is in her nature to make a stand. She’s diplomatic, which is why she isn’t the best with blurry-defined lines.


  

VIRGO GUY(August 23--September 22)

He’s probably the most annoying about relationships because often he is all mixed up. At the root, Virgo guy wants a good girl. The type of girl that mom would like or the type who mirrors mom. Still, Virgo guy is attracted to beauty and can easily make drunk choices that do not root their character. Virgo guy is the best to watch mature because he can evolve over time, but never entirely. There will be something controlling about this man, in that he is often too afraid to give up control in order to ‘be’ in love. Virgo guy needs his space. He is the opposite of smothering. He’s not a sappy lover, but he will provide and protect the person he loves. He can be extravagant when he wants to be. Virgo is the sign of service so what he doesn’t tell you, he will shower you with. If he is seemingly trying to hold down perfection in real life, in the bedroom he will be a different story. Good sex is often what keeps women coming back to this man. Beneath all his criticism is kindness. He’s a navigator who can’t be told what to do. He hates superiority and answers to his own law. The more you try to get on his page, the less he will want you there. The more you have going on in your own life—the better, but you still have to be there when this man really needs you. Virgo guy is a realist. He doesn’t pay compliments just to be charming and he doesn’t kiss butt. This guy is all about  modest confidence. While he may seem confident, rest assured that he is super hard on himself in private. Virgo man is often conflicted by the rationality of his thoughts and the complexity of his emotions. He wants to think he doesn’t want to feel and he certainly does not want to empathize. He can however provide you with some moral insight. Remember that this man can’t stay away from what has a hold on him, he will try, but eventually he will fold and run back to who he feels most secure with. Looking for perfection is his bill, but once he gives this up, he can potentially find the most perfect person for him.
 

VIRGO GIRL(August 23--September 22)

She can be a bit shy, but that doesn’t mean she doesn’t want attention. Virgo girl can be outgoing too, but there is always a shy side to her. She needs to feel comfortable to find her voice. Otherwise she might keep to herself. She’s visually observant and notices everything, but will question whether people are into her. They usually are, but she will resort to “preparing for the worst and hoping for the best”—this woman can’t help but worry. She’s good-natured, sure she has a naughty side, but that usually comes out behind closed door. At the root she just wants to be with someone forever and know that she can trust them. Virgo girl has usually been through the ringer with partners and knows that people doesn’t come free of problems. She’s maternal to her lover’s needs. She’s devoted and ready to spend as much time with you as possible. Finding a mate is very important to her but she doesn’t have the cheesy ability to sell her beauty as aggressively as some girls do. She’s got some intellect and she’s got class. She wants attention but she doesn’t demand it, it is naturally achieved. Suitors come to her in a timely fashion. She’s got a wifey vibe to her, but don’t let it fool you entirely. She’s not innocent, she may come off this way, but trust me, the Virgo vixen is no fool.
 

SCORPIO MAN(October 23--November 22)


Scorpio man is one of a kind that is for sure. There are exceptions here, but usually he takes in more than he sends off. Scorpio man is not about the words he is about the actions. If Scorpio man doesn’t text you when you expect him to it’s because he is not even thinking about texting you. Scorpio man likes to saturate himself with the moment, whatever that may be. He’s prone to being silent but deadly. He’s an extremist, good when he’s good, bad when he’s bad, but usually very good or very bad. Scorpio man loves with the intent that it is forever. Storing their faith and trust in you is a big deal. Rapper Drake is a Scorpio, what does his music tell you? Scorpio man has massive trust issues. This man is not going to give up his heart unless he knows it is going to be taken care of. Showing love is the key here, but Scorpio male needs to work on communicating. Natural sex appeal is awesome, but when you get older this is not going to hold up. Scorpio can be hot and cold. Don’t take this personally. There are certain people Scorpio feels more comfortable losing it in front of, but even that is rare because Scorpio is all about control. Scorpio man hates for others to see him lose it. Simply put, Scorpio man does nothing without intent. Therefore if Scorpio man isn’t returning your calls, let it be. If he wants to see you he will be game to do so. If he’s here today, gone tomorrow, let him go. He’s not worth the energy. If he’s difficult to begin with that means he will only get messier. Look for clean cuts when shopping for a Scorpio. Try to avoid a Scorpio who is still hung up on their last chapter, and you will be hard-pressed to find a heartbroken Scorpio who isn’t. This is not the man who jumped back in the saddle with glee--or at least not for too long. Generally, Scorpio man is looking for someone to really be with. If you think this is you, pay attention to his actions. If he’s paying attention to you then that’s your indicator, don’t let words have too much volume in your verdict.
 

SCORPIO WOMAN(October 23--November 22) 

Scorpio woman is a totally lovable bitch in total control. She could run your show, project manage your life and organize you closet. She’s powerfully smart. Scorpio male might internalize his intelligence, but Scorpio woman will put her smarts to the test. She’s not quick to find a mate she can’t live without, but when she does, she will not live without him. She’s capable of using people along the way. Often for sexual entertainment or just sheer amusement, but at the root she is looking for that picture-perfect devotion. She can be abusive, but does not mean to be. Sometimes Scorpio woman wakes up on the wrong side of the bed. She’s not a mushy lover, but she want to feel like it is okay to say ‘I love you’, really she needs a partner so adoring that he either forces her to say it or teaches her that it is OK. Scorpio Woman is very capable. Often she will hide her true feelings and emotions from other people. Scorpio woman takes joy in helping other people with their problems. This is also so that she never has to get into her own. She’s an excellent listener, but is prone to taking on too much at one time. Scorpio woman will do this to avoid dealing with her troubles or worries. She’s very inclined to lose herself in work or the needs of other people. Scorpio woman can get wound up in a ball of stress, which is why it is key for her to take solace in a playful partner who will remind her to enjoy life. She’s pretty straight forward with her time and her concern. If you are of value to her—she will make time for you, but please be mindful of her past relationships. They might highlight why she is the way she is but also will show if she’s capable of true emotional intimacy.
 

CANCER GUY(June 21--July 22)

Truth: Cancer guy is simply better when he is in love or has something to love. Cancer guy needs people and things to protect. He’s a homebody at the core. Sure, he loves film, music and good food, but he can probably cook that for you (at home). He’s romantic and a relationship sign. This is wonderful, but also his weakness. He’ll be waiting for your text. He’ll reply right on time. He’s interested even when he’s not. See, he just doesn’t always know which is which. The love of being in a relationship blinds the love of the actual love. Serial dating can be a crime here. Cancer guy: dating is not a band aide. Cancer guy will use potential partners to bandage the scars and keep his mood from getting crabby. Oh yeah, he’s crabby, but usually when his feelings are hurt or he is hungry. Sometimes he needs a little babying because he’s really not the best at handling stress. He could use a strong partner to compliment his softness. This being said, when he meets the right person it is bliss. The relationship moves in the right direction and you never question his faith or his feelings. You shouldn’t. Cancer can’t fake love in the long-run. You will know by the smile on their face, that this must be real. He’s no player even if he tries to be. He has a soft spot for having a somebody. As stated, he’s better when has something to protect, someone to come home and cling to.
 

CANCER GIRL(June 21--July 22)

Cancer girl is hilarious in her ways. A real natural Martha Stewart type who can creatively whip you up a costume or whip you up a perfectly accessorized outfit. She’s a raging flirt, but it’s harmless if she is with someone. She would almost never cheat. Like Cancer guy, she wants to build a home worth coming home to. She wants to make meals and cook romance. She’s sensitive, loving, caring and friendly. Yes, all Cancers have it in them to be moody or pressed by stress. You may need to lift her ego every now and again, but when this girl’s got it right, she carries herself with a certain, admirable light. All your friends love her, and the family too, sometimes Cancer girl seems too good too be true. The only caution is knowing where her head is at. Often, she will revert to her Cancer shell and deal with her emotions privately. She has to learn to let others be there for you if she expects to achieve true emotional intimacy with another person. She also has to be careful not to hide behind her humor as so many Cancers do. Everyone thinks Cancer Girl is funny, but she needs to know it is okay to take a moment to be serious. If you really want to impress her don’t hate on anything that is apart of her empire. She will defend her people to the core. Cancer protects by nature, and they won’t waste their time on anything unworthy of protection.
 

PISCES GUY(February 19--March 20)

There are probably no two greater opposites than the male and female Fish. It’s true to form here: there are plenty of fish in the sea and each fish type holds different attributes. Some are bad trout and some are starfish, here’s hoping he’s the better of the bunch. Generally this man makes the mistakes of confusing love and sex. Sometimes sex will create him a future, perhaps a child, an unforeseen marriage and then perhaps a divorce. It is not unlikely for a Pisces guy to be married more than once. Pisces guy has a good heart, but sometimes gets carried away in manipulations. Pisces guy is persistent as fuck when wants something. He will say all the right things and be a prince in the moment only to turn back into a toad. This happens. Don’t let it steer you. The Fish can be full of complimenting, generous passionate. A Pisces guy in his right favour can make you feel like you are the only girl in the world, but they are moody. What goes up must come down. In order to truly love this man you will have to be emotionally patient and emotionally strong. Like Scorpio, you may wonder why he hasn’t texted you, but it probably hasn’t even occurred to him to text you. Pisces guy also likes to saturate himself in the moment. Water signs tend to have this charming affect on people, which is why their lives are often a bit more unpredictable. If he’s a smart fish and a good looking fish he probably knows it. Tread with caution. Remember he doesn’t know what he wants yet, and might rely on a partner to guide him because he still has so much growing up to do. Also, he doesn’t want to grow up, generally this man is a big kid at heart. He might know some of the things he wants, but much he is figuring out along the way.
 

PISCES GIRL(February 19--March 20)

Pisces girl is the queen B of wanting what rejects her. Some say she is so addicted to the rejection that when things are going right she might do something impulsive just to create a little drama. Truth, she is just used to the worst and accustom to expecting it. She might have five people who love her and one person who doesn’t, in which case she will foolishly focus on the one person who doesn’t. Love for her is the ultimate. She has probably found herself “working” for love in the last while. Giving too much when she wasn’t getting back the same. Pisces girls tend to persist with the person they love. They don’t lose faith quickly if their heart is set on you. If you manage to keep their heart it is probably because you are complicated and not always easy to read. Pisces Girl is highly perspective and will get stuck on the people that she can’t read easily. Her curiosity and thirst for knowledge makes her pressed for answers. She will go fishing. This usually hurts her more than it does anyone else. If you like this girl, let her know. If she likes you and is letting you know, don’t string her on if you don’t feel the same. A person who uses a Pisces is a sad individual. Taking advantage of the emotionally weak and generous is never kind. Don’t let her fall into flighty mode, but don’t let her take off that easy. She will try to sass you away if she isn’t interested, but if you really start to create a dialogue with her, and formulate a meeting of the minds – she can change her mind. Pisces girl is capable of liking the oddest of matches if they take a chance. She’s a chameleon. Looks are not everything, but Pisces girl tends to fall back upon her dream crush and becomes a sucker for boyish good looks. Try not to take it too hard if you’ve stalked her for a date and she didn’t bite. Remember she wants most what doesn’t want her, so play your cards right and she’ll be stalking you. Sadly, the moment she does this she loses all her mysterious sex appeal and luring intuition. Try to see past that too. Technology sort of vamped the emotional charm of the Fish girl, you got to feel her fins out on land!



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Tuesday, June 18, 2013

The Star Sign Summer Survival Guide

Summer is an interesting season for love. It inspires people to be free and do things more independently. You may find yourself envious of that cute couple on the beach, but if there was ever a time to hate your relationship (even just a little bit) it's summer! This season has a careless spirit, which is naturally brought on by the change of weather and the desire to be untied (to anything). This can encourage careless whispers brought to you by the summer heat --that might come back as 'hauntings' in the fall. 

Singles who have a Black Belt in Dating will know that summer is not the season of fast-paced relationships nor is it a time for making big changes in an existing relationships. Yeah, there's all those weddings to make you think, dream or wonder, but remember-- all of those weddings were planned months/years in advance.
 Summer is not the time to be too serious. It is the time to dance, bask in the sunlight, travel, play with your friend Molly in the moonlight, but don't hesitate to take note that when you are in a frame of mind of 'not taking stuff seriously' (and enjoying yourself) you will be far more likely to attract suitors. Since it's summer and your not "expecting anything", you should probably just go with it. Summer can always be a time to warm things up for the fall--be patient, move slowly, get to know people and don't let the sun stroke you into doing anything stupid-- like move in with your GF of three months! 


 Sometimes it may seem like you are a living in a bubble of constant wonder: Doe they love me? Is he/she the one? Will this last? Will we get back together one day?The honest truth: you have to stop asking these types of questions. Firstly, you have to know that the love you envisioned for yourself is a possibility. In order for love to come or grow into something worthy you have to invest your personal faith in it and put aside your ego aside.


Give yourself an equations of what you want. Calculate something that is worth weighing in for and use this equation as a measuring tool towards finding the right person. Don't stray from what you really want/need.Pinning the excuse "everyone has problems" or "I won't find anyone else" is just a shitty excuse. Love is a knowing feeling that does not go away easily. In the same token, love is something you have to trust in before it can grow and come into bloom. You might find yourself shocked by some of the people who end up together: "sheeee got a boyfriend before me?" "Heeee found love before I did?" -- why is this? If you have to question why someone else found love before you then you are looking at the idea of love all wrong. You have to know that love is about timing. Being on board with other people's happiness with be a plus towards surrounding yourself in good energy and bringing love into your life. Otherwise your jealous energy will penetrate externally, and a negative, unattractive aura will naturally repel your potential love chances. Carrying around weight from the past or "walking with the ghost" will also keep you for being where you would like to be--love wise. Simple equation: If you believe in love, you will believe it will happen for other people (when their time is right) just as it will happen for you. It's sappy, but it works wonders.
Astrology aside, men are often very scared to find the right women in their 20s. Yes, there are those special guys who "just want to express love to one person", but the reality is, that "getting chics", "hooking up with hotties" and gaining sexual experience is a right of passage for a man. If he doesn't rise to the occasion he might get teased by his friends. Studies have shown that getting and having hot girls is apart of what it means to be a man and exert masculinity. It is this pressure to be masculine, which interferes with natural love connections and promotes infidelity. 

Also when people talk about love and say things like: "just not in this city"... disagree. If love is a natural progression, do you really have to move in order to find it? By all means travel, see the world, but don't make "falling in love" a trip priority or a city expectations. Check out The Star Sign Summer Survival Guide for more insight on yourself, your friends, co-workers, crushes, mate or EX-mate. Remember, if you are a cusp sign born within ten days of another sign--read both!


Fire signs will know they are in love with they are not prone to doubting it. Fire has to be sure in order to burn at a manageable place.


Aries (March 21- April 19)



Surviving Summer: The constant desire to push for more-- sometimes gets in the way of enjoying what you already have. Breath. The summer is a good time for Aries to attempt this. They want to roam, but they also feel this burning desire to work, work hard and set goals.  Aries is all about building their own pyramid, but they see how things should operate, at what time and in what way -- if for some reason their mate is not feeling this, Aries will struggle to re-work the orignal floor plan of the pyramid. 

Summer Love: If Aries loves, they have give you a lot of time to adjust to who they are. Aries is smart, a great game player and they never reveals all of their cards too soon. The true Aries, the sometimes greedy, bossy and shrew Aries will start to show their real face--once Aries is comfortable enough with the one they love. If you love Aries you have to find their planny ways endearing otherwise things won't work out. Certain things about Aries are set in stone. Single Aries will be working it--on the constant like a champ. Taken Aries will be flirtatious into looking good, and keeping their competition at bay. Aries would only date the best right? Therefore they need to keep their mate satisfied. Aries can be too independent and this can turn off lovers who want something more "together", but generally Aries will mate best with signs who are of the same, free, adventurous spirit.

Summer Aries: This is a good time for this sign (as the element of fire) they will love the heat and time time to sizzle and get active outside. Aries will also unwind a lot more than they normally do. They might even skip an exercise class here or there or not work as hard as they do (in other seasons). Summer Aries will also seek attention from places that do not stem from work, but are more play orientated. Aries does not like to be bored. They will jump at the chance of summer fun and adventure. 

Sagittarius (November 22- December 21)



Surviving Summer: Sagittarius is the sign of the sun and is probably the greatest lover of warm weather and good pleasure. Sag is happiest when they can draw up the blinds and let in some natural light. A lot can happen at this time, Sag could be on the brink of making some serious life changes. This could mean marriage, travel or a new job. Whatever it is, Sag is ready for the storm. The storm of new exciting things, new challenges and fresh ideas. These types of things will resonate well with this sign. 

Summer Love:If you are in love with a Sag don't take their need for personal 'roaming' time to heart, it is simply apart of this sign to seek adventure and take on new things. Summer Sag can often be oblivious to what is staring them in the face. This could be someone's hurt feelings or an addiction Sag can't accept, but it can also be Sag's inability to see when someone is into them. Sag will draw a blind eye to what they could have, and explore the chalenge and rejection of what they might have. Generally, there are a lot of lose lovers in this sign, connections are often fleeting and hard to sustain, but as always with this sign, it is about breaking the mold of how they feel 'they should act' and showing some emotional vulnerability. No one will make fun of you for being honest about your feelings, in fact, in lue of all your bragging, it will come as a huge relief. Your partner loves you, but is sometimes exhausted by your enthusiasm, optimism and constant energy.

Summer Sag: Summer Sag -- remember it is always ok to be adventurous as long as you also take time to chill, and really get in touch with what you want the most. You hate to lose, yes, but this is truly the only way for a Sag to find or discover what/who it is that they really want. You have to take more emotional risks. 


Leo (July 23-August 22)


Surviving Summer: Summer Leo is not nearly as focused as Fall Leo. Leo doesn't always know what they want to do, they know what they love. They also know that they want to do positive things and be around the people that make them feel good. Leo is a sign of image. They want to appear amazing. Even when Leo might not be feeling amazing inside. There are seldom to few people that Leo will actually show this weakness to. A big part of maintaining this 'amazing' social self (for some Leos) is suffering from suppressed insecurities. Leo is sprung on validation and social credibility. Yes, Leo does like to outshine people and will usually be really nice to the people who dislike them, make them jealous or inferior, but in truth, Leo is really just competing with Leo. They don't care about you, they care about how you feel about them, and if those feelings are going to rub off on others. Negative people just get in the way of Leo's natural born greatness, but lucky for you, Leo does not mind taking the admiration. Here's the thing, no matter how much you feel like you hold a candle to your Leo mate, they will always feel like you are the lucky one. Even if they really do feel equally lucky, Leo needs to hear it and they need to see it. Leo wants you to be fierce about your love and show the world that you are proud to call them a lover. Leo needs and loves attention, but their partner has to understand that Leo needs and loves attention from a variety of different people, places and things. If you are dating a Leo, you cannot expect to be included in all of these things. This is just how Leo operates. They will shine in every corner, but the person they come home to has their trust and their love.
Summer Leo: If you find that Leo is putting their friends before you too much this could be a bad sign. Leo is often a coward. They will try to take the most respectful approach when bowing out of a situation. Leo is a drama queen, Leo loves other people's drama, but they can't handle drama in their life, at least not from their love. They want things to be good at all times, and they want people to be happy. Too much nit-picking of the Leo will only make them fickle and this will result in Leo looking elsewhere for praise. The Leo might secretly know what sucks about them, but they do not like it when other people point it out, and will bear on the defensive if attacked -- in any shape or form. Leo is a total spazz in combat, and will often be worth leaving alone because if they aren't spazzy then they are all "pussy cat" like, and you know it is impossible for you stay mad at that?


Air is generally a huge flirt and the most capable element of playing the field without letting emotions getting in the way. Air will like to remain cool with everyone, until they find someone who really makes them hot.


Gemini (May 21 - June 20)

 Surviving Summer: Summer is a time for The Gemini to chill out. Some people don't know this but Gemini is at constant thought, and in some cases, at constant war with themselves. Gemini is oddly like Leo in that they don't like to show weakness, and they do not like to talk about their personal matters with personal strangers. Even if they know you, and know you well, Gemini will probably give you very little to go off, and instead will be a moody, undesirable bitch to you. On the other hand, if they trust you, they might tell you more than you want to hear. This is the curse of the Gemini. They can sway into different territories. Sometimes they are all,"hi" and other times they straight out pretend that you do not exist. Gemini is fun yes, but they have a hard time letting go of control, which is why drinking is often a great way for the Gemini to feel spirited.

Summer Love:  When intoxicated Gem will also lose their, "I need to be good" complex, and likely do things (sexual things) they would not normally do. In most cases this will lead to regretful Gemini, but what you don't talk about, no one has to know about, and Gemini has mastered this skill unlike any other sign. To be fair, this also means that they often know how to win any battle because their stubbornness results in either apologizes on your behalf or a ' let's agree not to agree', which is better for a Gem then having to admit that they were wrong. Gem is rarely sorry and rarely wrong, but often fair at coming around in time when it is their fault. Really, if they love you they will be needy of you and find it impossible to stay mad at you. 

Summer Gemini: Party? Party! Gemini will take up leisure, they will be with people often, they will work hard, but also make time for play and sometime duck out early or "set their own hours". Gemini will only persure what their heart is capable of. When burned in love, this sign can take awhile to truly move on, often a typical Gem just goes from one to the next (or is flirting with something), but the reality that most of these connections are actually emotionally invested is rare. Gemini uses people and plans to distract themselves from dealing with their own issues, and the things that they hate to think about that make them "feel bad" about themselves. Gemini really does hate to "feel bad", which why they often option to forget it completely. 


Libra (September 23 - October 23)

 Surviving Summer: The play child. Sometimes you just end up lost  in the forest, but at least you know how to get  lost with a smile on your face and icing on your finger. Summer is the ultimate time for Libra to spread their wings and soar to any place, which their charming heart desires. Summer Love: Single Libra will live it up. They will know just what to say to take your last breath away and..get you dropping your clothes. Cautious is always advised when Summer lusting over a Libra. They are known to sway, and unless you are prepared to sway with them -- you might end up getting hurt. Libra doesn't mean for you to get hurt, in fact, take nothing personal, Libra is not one to bear ill feeling over night, in fact, it is just the opposite. They are the way they are, but it has nothing to do with you directly. Libra will love you a million times over if you are cool, or cool enough to make them see life in a different way, which forces them to grow up. Good luck, but at least if Libra loves you, they will take your concerns into account and slowly (over time) make changes that will appease you. Mind you, Libra can't help getting caught up, what with all the summer fun (pretty things to look at) and their friends -- they can't say no, they can't say yes, all Libra can do is say: maybe. This is the perfect word to describe this sign. Hold on if you up to handle the tentative communication and non-committal atitude of "might", but if you yearn for plan and structure, and are not full of patient -- this won't be your summer cake walk.
Summer Libra: Don't be greedy. Think about the needs of others. Instead of using your charm to manipulate others into following your lead, encourage people to make up their own minds. People want to be around you, but don't take advantage of your popularity, and remember people are humans, not toys that you trash in your closet and play with when desired. The ability to gain empathy of other people's standpoints will help you find a greater sense of what you want both romantically and independently. This could be another Libra problem -- learning how to lose the entourage once in awhile, and do things alone, meaning: no one else.    


Aquarius (January 20- February 18)

Surviving Summer: Wanting what you can't have easily and pretending that you don't want something when you do -- are two very common running Scorpio themes. Aquarius might be under the radar when they meet someone they really like or they could be having secret sex, but something with someone is usually going on. Aquarius needs amusement! Summer Love: Aquarius is the worst when they lose their self-interests to the demands of love. Nobody ever saw that coming, right?  It is cool to try new things, but it is not cool to be controlled, and a true AQ would never stand for anyone telling them what to do or how to live their life. Don't tell this sign they are wrong because they have their own unique way of thinking and doing things, which you might not always understand, but AQ doesn't feel like it is their job to teach you. Adapt or move on, you may not have noticed, but AQ has probably been coaching themself to be patient with you. AQ is what AQ is and this can be a rainbow of wonderful  and eccentric things. AQ can be super chill and "go with the flow", or for those born closer to Capricorn, it could mean-- being very driven, goal-focused and determined. AQ may not know what they want, but they want what works, and will give things a healthy shot if they seem to go in their favor. This is the problem too though, as The Water Carrier will start to coast for too long and lose sight of their future. They are always thinking ahead, but sometimes stay in the same place for too long, this doesn't even have to mean with the same person, it could be the same sexy mistake, over and over, and over again. 


Summer Aquarius:  Summer is a perfect time for the AQ to just veg out and take it easy for once. Remember AQ, you do not need to be doing something all the time. This doesn't deplete your social credibility or make you fat and lazy, it makes you human. Alone time is needed here. Otherwise AQ will be so influenced by their surroundings that they will lose sight of their former intentions and desires-- like why they are even with you in the first place. Summer is a good time for AQ to find a sense of pleasure and relaxation, which doesn't always have to include other people. Aquarius will be everywhere this summer with everyone. Taken Aquarius will plan fun group activity, which will give them the space required in their relationship. Aquarius does not want a babysitter, they can be excellent caretakers, but they don't want to babysit you either. If you are just as free-spirited as Aquarius this could be wonderful or it could be problematic, as whoever has more "controlling" elements in their sign won't be amused by this "cool" approach towards dating. At least not for too long, you have catch the Aquarius or soon they'll be swimming off to meet warmer fish and they can do this easily.


Earth is stable and stationary. At the root, this is the element of home and relationships, but sometimes earth signs have a hard time breaking through their own shell, and this affects their ability to meet people -- or even notice when someone is trying to meet them.


Capricorn (December 22-January 19)

Surviving Summer: It would be nice to say that Capricorn slows down during summer or that they work less, but this is hardly the case. Having self-demands is what pulls the Capricorn out of bed in the morning. They want to do the best job possible. They want to make money and sometimes these desires get in the way of the emotional feelings that they suppress. Capricorn would rather be a boss about problems, instead of being emotional about them. Capricorn will be proactive and do what they can to be a life raft by helping you figure things out in a sensibile and intelligent way. Capricorn will really listen if they want to help you figure it out, but only because they are stable enough to do so, right?
Summer Love:  Capricorn will make time for the person they love, well they will plan time or set something special aside for you. They will be OK if you don't meet their economic standards, but seriously impressed if you do. Equality is valued, but being the Bread Winner and finding a workable routine that balances love and romance -- is ideal. Capricorn is OK with being the best and bringing home the biggest income. Single Capricorn will have a hard time connecting with the things they question and a hard time keeping track of everything at once. They have a need to be in a relationship, but they do not have a need to be impulsive and sexually 'out of control'. Sex, surprisingly is not something that Capricorn will attach emotions to lightly, it can easily be a form of release that holds little sentiment. Capricorn can't help sometimes but care, they will help to improve you (if in their power) and keep you happy. This is also because they care about their public images, which is why it might seem like they treat everyone the same. They don't. If you are a part of Capricorn your worth reflect off of theirs, and therefore they want you to keep it together.The person Capricorn loves and the people that they really trust are the ones who get to see the Capricorn unplugged, and this is a much more emotional show than Capricorn at the office.
Summer Capricorn:  The important thing is that Capricorn will try to get into the sun. They are encouraged by a good, alcohol infused vacation, but it has to be planned. Likely your Cap has a job in which he/she is greatly needed, and therefore they can't always make enough time for you. This doesn't mean they don't care, and this especially does not mean they are being disloyal. Coming home to the people they care about is the upmost important thing to a Capricorn. Capricorn likes classy people and classy things, and prides on exuding a classy attitude even if what Capricorn is doing is just as bad as that thing they judged you for last week.


Taurus (May 20-April 20)

Surviving Summer: This summer Taurus will either be hung up on something that is over or sinking their teeth into the sweet taste of something new. Often lazy, but very hard-working Taurus (even if they hate their employer) are motivated to make plans to look forward to. Taurus loves to travel, party, and do fun things with their friends.Taurus will hate to do anything against their desire, but sometimes will do it anyway, even if doing it against their will-- will only frustrate them further.
Summer Love: Taurus tends to fall too fast too soon. They will make big changes within in short periods of time (over trivial stuff) and make slow changes with the things that really matter. Love doesn't always have a plan, but Taurus will run with their heart in the hopes of finding one. Sometimes these Taurus jaunts will lead to many failed outcomes, but Taurus isn't the best at being single. At least not happily. Taurus feels more confident and self-assured when they have someone to keep them feeling tender and entertained. Single Taurus will be out everywhere, looking hot and trying hard to wheel in new connections. Regardless, old claims don't die quickly with this sign. Even if it is over with you, Taurus might still feel concerned, even Taurus has a new mate. This can be expressed in the form of conversation or seeking attention through social media sites. Taurus likes to have the last laugh. If you think their actions are intended to catch your attention, they just might be, but you'll probably see a running theme in the Taurus lifestyle. Taurus is always documenting/sharing everything good going on in their lives. They desire to enjoy their lives with the people they trust most.
Summer Taurus: Taurus won't let you or anybody get them down for too long. This is why they move on foolishly or stay in shitty relationships (for too long) only to leave one day abruptly and without much prior (verbal) warning. You may not even know what is going on with Taurus because they don't share, document or publicly publish their downfalls, true feelings and emotions. Taurus would rather show you their loving instincts and this summer this could mean, emotionlessly for one night, which will be hard to do if Taurus has their designs set on you. 


Virgo (August 23-September 22)

Surviving Summer: Virgo has a tendency to spend too much time alone. It's not you, they just prefer it this way. Virgo needs time to miss you and if you smoother them, they will scare away. Virgo will always need to seek a form of self-improving adventure or self-desire, anything that is 'self' focused and is distinctly seperate from their emotional relationships. Luckily, Virgo likes the sun and will be less of a troll and actually show their face (a lot more) this season. Virgo is also a perfectionsit and very vain. They will like to get darker and perhaps more fit during this time. Virgo is very body conscious, but won't be afraid to show off what they've got--if they've got something.
Summer Love: Virgo's body conscious nature also plays a part in their romantic and sexual endeavours. If Virgo has to be physically perfect, then ideally they would like their mate/fantasy to also be. This critical Virgo voice stems from a place of love, but no matter what, the Virgo's libido craves isn't always congruent to the longings of their marital heart. Virgo's heart craves the essence of a good girl/boy. You know the type of mate who is mother quality, which means you are also the type who can tolerate Virgo's mother. Virgo women tend to worry too much, who are we kidding? So do the male types. Virgo can't help but question everything because they have a very realistic approach to life, and will often see how things can't work oppose to how they can, is that the reality? Virgo knows that finding one person will take some time and experience. Regardless, these Virgo questions will only stand in the way of their joy --stop thinking--start feeling. Stop playing games and get in the game, you could afford to lose a round by putting your heart on the line because that's what you secretly want anyway--that sappy--sweep-me-off-my-feet kind of love (just not in public). Virgo, seriously, in some way, will want to rescue the person they love.
Summer Virgo: Try not to put all your energy into one thing, one person or one job. As the sign of service, Virgo has a a hard time stopping, but pay attention Virgo, remember, it is summer, if everyone is slacking off a little that doesn't mean you swoop in there and sweep up the slack. Relax, a little if you can. Not everything people say or do needs constant correction, judgment or oppositional insight. You don't always need to be doing this to yourself either, leave yourself alone and you might just find yourself not alone!And if you are with someone, leave them alone so you two can actually enjoy each other this summer!


Water signs are so desperate for love that they often mistake sex for love and have high expectation of all the people who they do sleep with.



Scorpio (October 24-Nover 21)

Surviving Summer: Scorpio is out to correct, confront and scold if the situation is not about Scorpio directly. If you are tying to confront Scorpio about something that you feel they did wrong, they will be very touchy-feely, potentially scary and defensive. When it comes to their important, emotional relationships Scorpio will have a hard time with letting go of control. Doing this will be hard for Scorpio to achieve in any season so proceed with caution. You have every right to tell Scorpio how you feel. It may take a thousand times, but maybe, eventually, they might get the picture? Proceed with caution, unless of course "caution" comes a-calling first, in which case Scorpio will not be easy to deal with, fight with, or reason with. Scorpio (better than any other sign) will know when to withdraw and when to react, and even better, they know how to cut people out with hesitation or even a second thought. They know how to straight up 'fuck off' if you fuck with them. This will only be easy for Scorpio to do if they didn't really trust you in the first place. Scorpio holds dearly to their loyal, emotional relationships, but that being said, if they really loved you, you might find yourself dealing with the wrath of Scorpio's pain.
Summer Love: Single Scorpio will be out and about and partying with a dark, un-trusting heart and a quick-witted tongue  Sexual Scorpio can't mask their physical urges when under the influence. Scorpio has been known to stoop to some love levels when it comes to getting some. Relationship Scorpio still needs space from their partner. Love isn't everything for this sign. It is highly important but Scorpio also has other dreams that go beyond "happily ever after" and let's face it, they are not easily impressed by anyone.
Summer Scorpio: Scorpio has to find a way to chill out and let the little things ride. Focus on the bigger issues at hand.  Love has a natural way of making Scorpio get edgy, but love is never enough for the Scorpio to be and feel sincerely happy. Scorpio needs to figure out where they are  from a personal standpoint first, and for many of them this could be a head in the wrong direction or for others, no direction at all (at least at first), but there is massive potential in this sign and great intelligence, which really could go a lot of places. Scorpio is quite gifted, intuitive and true. They just need to get to wherever they are going at their own pace and by their own self-regulated rules and direction.


Cancer (June 21-July 22)

Surviving Summer: Cancer has to be careful not to get stuck, walloping in their Cancer shell. They also have to be careful not to become dependant on food, drugs or cheap sex to make them feel better. Cancer is motivated by other people, but has to find a way to make summer about them and their own issues, dreams etc. Cancer has to take time for them in order to find a kind of enjoyment that doesn't involve helping or taking care of anyone else, can Cancer find joy in helping Cancer?
Summer Love: If any sign is capable of making something progress (this season), progress into a real, love-based, long-term relationship--it's Cancer! Cancer doesn't want to end things and they are never the person to rush into a break-up-- unless of course, it is absolutely necessary. In this case they will probably just stop replying to your messages. Cancer prefers a real foundation between two people, someone and something they can rely on, protect and trust in. Cancer wants someone they can do stuff with, they actually are up for the idea of "dates", which involve activities and conversation. They don't want to do things alone, which is unfortunate because they have a lot of great ideas for planned excursions.  Not being able to do what they like will  only make Cancer crabby. Cancer loves to have something to protect (and even better if that person protects them right back) and share inside jokes with them, and stays by their side all night long because they kind of hate everyone else.
Summer Cancer: Cancer needs to focus on goals that are self-determined. Cancer needs to do things that do not stem from other people or other people's validation or concern. Stop helping other people with their important projects, Cancer, and start working more on your own. Sometimes Cancer neglects their sense of personal desire, especially if the presence of 'someone to love' is blocking them from it. Cancer has the ability to think really, really negatively. They will often doubt themselves or fail to make potential dreams come true simply because they have such little faith. Cancer will often think their ideas/dreams weren't good enough when they probably really were. Cancer needs to surround themselves with positive things and people, which will reminds them of all the things they secretly want to achieve. Listen to the other voice, the sunny voice, you know, the one that tells you that: You Can!


Pisces (February 19-March 20)

Surviving Summer: Pisces is one of the most likely signs to feel sad in this season, but mainly if Pisces feels "left out" of really fun looking activities  Pisces is sensitive to what they see, often their intuitions are dead on, but other times Pisces will jump to conclusions and assume things that are not always right. The whole Pisces need to 'make a dramatic scene' is so five years ago (for many of you). Most Pisces have come a long way, but still there is (always) a lot of growing up to do. Don't let the summer moods (which go up and down daily for most Fish) get you down. If you really need to be EMO, have a day (or three) to mourn and then be on with it. Don't be lazy--keep at it. Pisces will often work so hard at something only to watch their sand castles topple over and wash away. Go with the flow, you know waves are coming, and you'll pass them just as you passed the ones before. People will be blown away by your lack of reaction or lack of interest, especially when it is expected. Sometimes you care too much and this is the exact reason why people sometimes forget to include you.
Summer Love: Don't take the feelings to a dark place and don't let the feelings control you or your daily disposition. People love 'Happy Pisces", not obsessive, out-of-control Pisces who is probably 'out-of-control' for a few, obvious reasons: Pisces has once again fallen for someone who won't validate their love or greatness OR Pisces has a burning interest for someone who doesn't feel the same way back, but will take the bate if Pisces throws themselves at the right hour. Don't whore yourself out or get used for sex, people often fail to see all the other "good" things that you are because you lead with your sexuality and you do it so well, but don't let people treat you like a doorknob, especially a doorknob that is easily opened. Remember Pisces that not everyone you get under or on top of is going to be 'the one'. Remember, just because you express your secret romantic longings and feelings 'of like' through sex -- it doesn't mean that everyone else does. Not everyone has their heart down there. Don't put all of your sassy swim into one charming fish or one place. Don't be emotional about your hook-ups; play it cool. Try to be friends (first) if you really like the person. How else will you break from your self-conscious barrior of worrying that you are doing or saying the wrong thing? Oh right, drinking (or drugs), but that will only lead to trouble: cheating, emotional cheating, hate mail, stalking etc.
Summer Pisces: The hate mail you long to send when drunk is only a drunk thing. Many of you are "too nice" in real life and don't always have the courage to stand up for yourself. Try to make sober choices to set the bar higher. If you know someone is going to reject you (or fear it) beat that person at their own game, but this doesn't always require a message. A message requires a response. People react better to "cool" Pisces, and when Pisces acts confidently or choses not to play the victim they generally become more attractive. Letting someone know "it's over" or "I'm done" could smell of the reality that you secretly are thinking the other person isn't interested and want to to beat them to the punch. Realize that doing things like this, especially when drunk, only translate as "I still care", any acknowledgement or message you send indicates this--otherwise you would ignore it right, like the 56 other people (who love you) that you are currently ignoring, right?

                                             

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