People will leave each other to live out career opportunities because they are not yet established enough to decline these opportunities for love. Those who depend on love to exist or feel happy, might begin to wilt a little, especially if their stronger mate starts to achieve before them and is not as available to them. 2013 should be a year about self and others, which will remind you that joy can come in combination of your personal successes. A person who really wants to be with you will never stand in the way of your personal dreams or desires. If you are constantly complaining about how a person treats you, perhaps you should focus a bit less on that individual, and re-focus on the people who do make you feel good. For every five things that you worry about, there are likely ten other things, which should/could make you smile.
Why waste any time looking back? Don't look at the clock thinking it's too little, too late -- if you are here in the now then you are able to live a life that allows you to at least try. 2013 means, finding the confidence to take these chances and not steer away from them. Negative thinking is an addiction. Don't let it become a part of your daily, weekly or monthly 2013 routine. Be proud of who you are, and where you have come to be. Be self-knowing. Whatever you are, whatever you say, whatever you want, own it because the people in your life who chose to accept you 'being you' without apologies or self-surveillance are the true people in your life. These people are the ones who really love you. Wanting what you couldn't have was cool in 2012 -- but 2013 is time to get over it, and open your mind to something/someone else. Whatever you did not have courage to demand from your relationships in the past year won't seem as important this year: learning. The natural progression of true love and personal development will enable you to tell your partner anything with ease.
IF YOU ARE WITHIN TEN DAYS OF ANOTHER SIGN -- READ BOTH, YOU HAVE DUAL ENERGY, AND YES THIS WHAT A CUSP SIGN IS.
HAPPY NEW YEAR!
Capricorn (December 22 - January 19)
I'm Doing Me
You've really coasting through without any scratches, but you often feel like you are not moving at the pace that you desire. You always want more. 2012 was beneficial. It had its ups and downs, but it also laid concrete groundwork for achieving future goals. Goals that you could live out in 2013, if you use your natural ambition and determination. You are constantly challenging yourself on how to be and earn more. The big thing that needs to blossom here is your ability to extent compassion to others in a capacity that is affective. Capricorn needs to embrace their emotional side in order to really feel things on an internal and intimate level.You + Me
You are so prone to taking the sharp, dominant role that you often forget that there are alternative ways of life that surpass the expectations of your own. So many Capricorns have been with their mate for years and have yet to ask the big question or hear those three words back: "will you marry me?" If you are on the wondering side of the spectrum, remember, a Capricorn will only pop the question when they feel like they can truly provide for you. They are smart about money and would not consider marriage unless they feel financially stable. They need to feel ready on their own terms. If Capricorn is naturally financially stable and has still yet to pop the question, the concern could live in their level of power and a desire to do more for their own success.All of The Lights
The powers of wealth may allow the Capricorn to be highly attractive or well fashioned, which will make them very determined to have the best job. If there is a promotion, the Capricorn will have their eye on it, and will always be working towards placing themselves in a position of greater power. This ambition is commendable on many accounts, but it has also proved to bring a world of trouble for the career hungry Capricorn. Friendships will be hard to form if you step on people that likes you in order to get ahead in the work force. Your reputation can easily be tainted if you do not treat your subordinates, equals and authority figures with the highest regard of courtesy. 2013 will pose as a phase in the Capricorn's life where they really start to question their relationships and work ethics. Capricorn will be successful in work this year, if they look for reinforcements for the future and bestow this positivity, heart and compassion upon others.House of Balloons
It is time to tie down those lingering balloons that have been in your bouquet for far too long. You are all about priority, order, work and business. Life, love and career need to jive all at the same time for Capricorn to feel comfortable. The need to achieve comfort will come with the urge to actually sign those cheques, pop those question, take those risks, and make those commitments. Ask that girl/guy out, apply for that job, say what is really on your mind. Capricorn's only hold up will be their own personal reservations or their own negative attitude. If they think that everything is hopeless, no one will be able to fight the gravity of their flying balloons. If anyone has the mustard to make that big leap it is this sign, and they will continue to excel in 2013 if they keep challenging themselves to be even better, if possible, right?
Taurus (April 20 - May 20)
I'm Doing Me
If you have a Taurus in your life, you can probably acknowledge their persistant loyalty and devotion. Taurus likes to possess. They find contentment in materials, good food, good taste, and real love. It wouldn't be unlikely if a Taurus has been called high matinence -or "princess-like." They have simple needs, but prefer that these needs are satisfied to the highest degree. Like all the shoes in their over-consumed closet, Taurus is trying you on for size. They might be steadfast and pragmatic about how they make their finale mate choice-- they are looking for the right fit. They might wear you too long by mistake, but will quickly buy something new. There could be something that you had to let go of or someone that you have still to overcome in order to let in something new. Perhaps you held onto that security shoe for too long, but once you ran cold without it, you found your way into the arms of someone really warm. Someone who really got you and perhaps enjoys to the same fanatic degree -- a lot of the quirky things, which make you characteristically you.You + Me
If Taurus is seriously on the romantic pursuit, they are looking for someone that they can really share their life with. Someone who will be their best friend, best bed mate and best life mate. Taurus will never leave your side if you prove to be loyal and loving to this degree. Even if 2013 seems a lot like 2012, the love of The Bull only grows progressively stronger this year. The trouble is that the Bull feels like they can't live without a love interest. Their heart often gets involved with someone, the moment they drop their pants, and this will not always pan out -- no matter how good it was or for how long. 2013 will be a year of finding confident love, love that compliments the Taurus's true ambitions. The Bull needs to take the time to really outline what it is that they want. Refuse to settle for otherwise, refuse to give and get little back. To the same degree that no one can change you -- you cannot change other people. Work with those that work well with you, but do not stick around to play seamstress to your past lover's. You cannot mend a faulty lover just as you cannot change a unfaithful man into a loyal one.All of The Lights
2013 could be a lazy year for The Bull. They might milk certain opportunities that serve to provide them with temporary enjoyment. Don't let yourself get too caught up in the addiction to pleasure. The pleasure principal here would be to try to take some space from your partner in order to find a sense of self. Suffocating yourself in love will not serve you well, though you can't help but crave love, security and affection. You want these value to be reciprocated by your mate. You have a lot of good fortune coming your way this year. If you chose to work hard, and apply yourself a lot of powerful jobs will be at your feet. It's one thing to talk about doing new things, or trying new types of work, but it is a totally different thing to actually give into the vulnerability of actually trying to make them real or live them. Taurus will reward themselves in travel and shopping this year -- the light is always green for the Taurus, their trips, their tricks and their treats.House of Balloons
This is a big year for the Bull. Before they might have thought they needed to be The Bull with the most balloons, but now The Bull is being more selective. They are not as prone to making the same mistakes, mistakes that they have made before, more than once. "Shame on me once, shame on you, shame on me twice, same on me". Taurus is not willing to sacrifice the things that they value for anyone, and many Bulls have the chance to meet the right person this year. A person who can satisfy The Bull on the same level that they please others. This might be as silly as loving the same animal land or zoo animal, but these simple traits that the Bull finds to have in common with their mate, will only melt their heart even more, and solidify the love connection. These commonalities can come from the shared love for food, drink, or a good vacations. Taurus will always venture to getaways because they relish in the idea of doing absolutely nothing -- without work, but with plenty of play. Work and play have to be separated here. True love for the Taurus, in 2013 will be effortless because they are finally seeing their worth to it's absolute potential. Marriage is always an option with this sign because they scream security and embody 'the marrying prototype", which is why the balloon of a Taurus' heart will rarely pop. Or at least not easily or immediately when they feel like they've found their Romeo.
Virgo (August 23 - September 22)
I'm Doing Me
The start of this year could be challenging for some Virgos. They will feel that they have been tested to question relationships. They will feel an uneasy sense of unknowing about the future. This is because they often have to succumb to questioning themselves on a daily basis. They just want perfection. Virgo wants good service and they want the life ideal. Virgo is known for being the sign of service, but Virgo will often work really hard in concrete aspects and avoid working through the emotional complexities of love relationships. Virgo does not like to be fussed, they do the fussing, which is why 2013 will propel the Virgo to face their own accountability in order to become a better, more-loving, less reclusive, but a warmer, and more fulfilled individual.You + Me
Virgo can exude an energy of uncertainty or distrust because they like to keep their affairs and love life private. Virgos are pros at hiding secret affairs, hookups, crushes and romantic interests. They know how to leave details out and acknowledge only what is most necessary to their story. They are great at using their good looks, sweet smile, great body or good charm to weasel themselves out of sour situations. The appeal towards perfection, power and money will only make the Virgo resist positive life change. This is often because they don't always see positive change as positive, at least not initially. In order for things to remain calm, the Virgo needs to be in control and not feel bothered by love. They need to stay relaxed and interested. They will need you to be open to new things in the bedroom. They don't want to be smothered by your devotion, they want to guide you on their journey of love-- so you better enjoy it, but you also better let Virgo know that you do. They want to have a meeting of the minds, which allows the Virgo to really appreciate the body of their lover, but they also want you to appreciate their body.All of The Lights
Career wise, the Virgo will be able to really settle down, focus and work hard. The Virgo will want to prove themselves to their bosses. This is a good place to avoid the emotional questionings of 2012, and apply your sharp mind towards prosperous endeavors. Trying to start fresh is key, but keep in mind that what you decide to ignore, will come back to present itself in some regard, and the longer you ignore it, the worse it will get and become. In 2013, try not to get so caught up in your career to the point that you neglect love/interpersonal relationships. You hate it when people resent you for anything, almost as much as you hate doing a bad job, so try to find a balance, which keeps you happy, less bitchy and more proactive towards becoming a useful person-- not just for yourself, but for others as well. The person you hate to disappoint the most will have the biggest impact on whether or not you can maintain a desirable well-being this year. Concentrate on having/showing empathy towards people who cross your path in a negative or oppositional way. You often are self-righteous, sure you are usually sensible and right, but you can also be blindly wrong and out of line at times. You are secretly so moral, that you hate to admit your own moral wrong doing, so much that you often fail to apologize when you should. In other cases, you apologize too much, and this has got to stop, and will eradicate with maturity.House of Balloons
As much as you love to be in control, there are a lot of balloons leaping up from out of your control. The chips did not fall exactly where you predicted them to this year. You reached a point of defeat, which you probably have yet to accept. You'd rather find a place to feel something because when you don't feel something you start to get down. If you roll with the idea of openly admitting fault, you will find yourself in a much happier position. Virgo needs to let go of worry, apprehension and doubt. They won't find happiness unless they free some of their stubborn hangups, which prevent them from truly being happy. Even when they do find something that they want to stick with, they tend to wander in the idea of other directions. Everything is a gamble here, and Virgos are never quite sure of the bets that they place. 2013 will pose challenges for The Virgin who will need to own up to a lot of things and behaviors that they have suppressed, denied, lied about or concealed in order to grow into the lovely person that they are. Virgo won't enjoy this new year if they get too hung up on ignoring what they don't want to confront.They will need to step up to the plate in more than one endeavor. This could be hard for Virgo because they really likes to focus on what best suites them and not everyone else in their life.
Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)
I'm Doing Me
"I'm Doing Me" isn't a mantra that the Sag is unfamiliar with because no one can hold them down-- unless they can impress the eccentricity of the Sagittarius in an unforgettable fashion. The Sag has an energy, which craves to indulge in life pleasure, nature, thrill and adventure. If anything, it is the fanfare of their own success, which might make them neglect their self-care or their romantic life. They strive to be healthy and perfect, but often can not help but indulge in life's pleasures. For the most part, however, Sag is very prone to doing what is in their personal best interest. Even if the play is favoured here, when it comes to work, the Sag will never quit, and will usually 'kill it' to the point of great, great success. They will face things until they start to feel them. Or they will persist beyond showing cruelty in order to find a place of peace. Sag hates confrontation: let's work it out. This quality makes you good at your job. In 2012 you might have found yourself all over the map, looking for various ways to fulfill your intense need for excitement, pleasure and escape. Sometimes you have a tendency to avoid emotional weaknesses or turmoil. You will focus on what pumps the optimistic vibes, which coat you, even if you get pushed into angry, bossy or territorial behavior -- you'd rather have fun.You + Me
Nobody may know this, but Sag is a hopeless romantic and capable of being very devoted, romantic and providing to the right person. They want to be in love, and will sacrifice everything for the right mate. They need to meet someone who can challenge or harness them. Someone they trust in enough to share inner thoughts with. In 2012, you did not feel as open to trust others. This might have left you feeling incomplete. You may not have felt ready enough to see where things were going in your life. You felt uncertain. You yourself may have been pushing the boundary for trust in order to desperately find it in someone, please. Your own character might have been under suspicion, but in 2013, people, especially love matches, start to see you in a new light that makes people do a double take in your presence. Your tender side come out more this year, and really attracts a lot of new people into your life. Embrace this. Others see that you are putting in an effort to make yourself glow in goodness and good company. Plus, you start to take more pride in yourself, and when this presents, a lot of possibilities come to the table. Don't ignore them.All of The Lights
Nobody wants success more than the Sag. If they can't have it for themselves they will encourage it in the people that they love. They will brag about all the good things that are happening to both them and the valued people in their life. 2013 will make you deal with the failures that you ignored or chose not to talk about before. In dealing with the past you will become a better person in the future. You have big dreams, and won't get defeated if you start this year with a clean slate. Let the past go. You've learned how to do your job really well, it is getting noticed. You are standing out and are on the brink of even bigger, better and brighter opportunities. The end of 2012 served to show you that a lot is in your reach, but even more so if you stick with the optimism that you naturally place upon others. The confidence you keep with yourself is key, just don't let it control you or influence you to a place of stubbornness. Please admire your ability to run shit well, be a business mogul and boss people around productivity Don't steer from these talents -- just add a little bit more sensitivity and softness to your approach and you won't lose.House of Balloons
The Sag will find their heaven in 2013 through adventure, travel and risk-taking. Some of you are amped, but also afraid. You fear that you can't go places without certain people around, and hide behind company as a means of helping yourself face situations. This year, do what YOU want to do for yourself, and do not make your life plans about anyone else. You need to start breaking out of your circle of trusted friends, and be apart of joyful occasions that are new, eccentric, refreshing, life-changing and character building. If you are single, you won't meet potential love mates unless you start to wander off into new territories and explore new lands. If you are with someone, this is the year to really appreciate (and not try to improve) your lover. Let them know how much personal room you require in order to stay involved, and be sure to give your partner their own space-- to keep the fire burning hot.
ARIES (March 21 - April 19)
It might appear that "doing me" is a Fire Sign theme, this is true, but the expression of "me" is exerted differently by each of the Fire Signs. The Ram, for example won't be afraid to own every aspect of their life. They will want to be the very best, and it probably will not bother them if everyone else knows it. You want everyone to both know you and love you. You can share in the success of the Aries, but it is not favoured that you surpass their potential. Aries' are really good at pretending that they know everything, even if they don't, they will probably convince you that they do. They are super friendly and fun, but also love to argue and will bagger you with their rhetoric until you are blue in the face, or tire into defeat. They have a very persistent, argumentative nature, and this need to fulfill the self will only provide more challenges for Aries, who in many cases, refuses to lose. The difference here is that Aries will not be afraid to meet these challenges head on and take them out on you. Aries will knock the competition dead, but after their win, will flash you an irresistible smile, one that you probably won't be able to deny. Aries is fun, philosophical and charming. They have a natural ability to be so friendly that this will help them win in an effortless way-- for the most part.
You + Me
Challenges will persist into Aries' interpersonal relationships as they will have a hard retaining control of the shared chew toy of love. When Aries is really smitten they will put up with a lot of things in order to satisfy their partner, they will wait, and this is highly unusual here. At some point, the patience of the Aries will tire, if they feel like they are not getting what they want from their mate. 2013 presents a lot of challenges for Aries, which might not have anything to do with feelings, but rather circumstances, that will prove to challenge interpersonal relationship. Circumstances that could taint the Aries's overall image of perfection and success will frustrate the Ram. Aries will avoid confrontation, but eventually confrontation will find Aries and force them to address situations they would prefer to disregard or ignore.All of The Lights
Shining has never been a problem for the first sign in the zodiac: Aries. The problem is that they literally want to encompass the notion of "all of the light", meaning that they want it all, every light, and may find that they are never satisfied if they don't set limitations for their personal goals and lighting requirements Aries might find they are happier when they settle into a place of comfort and love oppose to a place of dominance or success. In 2013, new opportunities for the Aries will appear, and not all of these opportunities will develop easily. Career is never a conflicted aspect of the Ram's life, the only conflict here is that Aries always wants to do and be more at work. When The Ram is networking and determined to achieve -- they will deliver. Watch. It is important not to let these burning desires interfere with romantic relationships, which could prove to be more nurturing in the end. The moment Aries is vulnerable towards their emotions is the moment that they become more aware of their position in life, and more comfortable about the ideas of marriage and love. Two things that don't always register naturally in the plans of an Aries person.House of Balloons
There are no limits for how high the Ram will soar. Though they have probably learned, if they soar too long in the sky, the fall back down to earth could be hurtful. Even if Aries will try not to let anyone get in the way of their play and pleasure. They have to learn to share their balloons, the limelight and in the celebration of other people's successes in order to find a place of content. Aries is very competitive, which means that they will manipulate you with their wit, especially if they know that they can. Winning will come at any cost for the Aries, but often, it is not worth damaging other people's feelings or well-being over. Aries needs to find what they love and stay close to it, even if it this is forefront to their money-making-corporate-success or big life decisions. Love is what will fulfill them and make them find their way back to the ground a bit more easily after a flighty, memorable and fulfilling life adventures. Invest in love, forgivness and compassion. This is the right Aries route to getting it all.
