We do not understand where other people are coming from. Sometimes it is not easy to see behind the intentions of other people. When we don't know things, we resort to assuming the worst, even before we hear the truth. People spy things on social media sites and automatically jump to conclusions. We might even find ourselves invading the privacy of others in order to reassure ourselves that there is nothing to worry about.
The person who seeks for reasons to deploy angst often gets hurt the most. When you seek betrayal, pain or anguish (even if that’s not the initial intention) that is what you are going to get. The anxious energy that you bring into the situation is coded and every action, word or text message is sent from this place of distrust and anxiety.
The relationship vapidly will become saturated in negativity. It will end. It is impossible to have success in love if you are constantly lacking trust or even worse, forcing yourself to lack trust. Do not sacrifice your inner values just to be with someone. Love can only excuse so much.
With this in mind we pose the question: do you really know your partner's Astrological Love Style?
To poke fun at this notion, What’s Your Birthday? Has provided Astrological insight into what your partner is really thinking/feeling when it comes to privacy, matters of the heart and their overall disposition.
If you are born within 10 days of the upcoming or previous sign, you are a cusp so read both!
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ARIES MAN(March 21--April 19)
He’s no incline to letting people in to begin with. It’s not to say that he doesn’t want love, he does, he might, but he’s also holding out for something special. If Aries Man is holding onto you—this is meaningful in itself! If Aries man decided to love someone he does, but it has to be done on his own terms. Sometimes Aries man does not “decide” but rather falls for you without his control. Regardless, Aries man will always require personal space. Aries man will always be a bit selfish. Aries man will always break the mould. He is very generous with his money when he’s got it, but he doesn’t always have the sappy words you might crave from a lover or a friend. Aries man has romantic moments, but he yearns for friendship, kinship, hot sex and intellectual stimulation. Aries man has many bedroom desires, but he also desires to be challenged mentally. If you take his slow-moving ways and disinterest in commitment, personally, you are a fool. This guy can take forever to crisp, but your loyalty of his unique perspective will only solidify why he asked that question in the first place. Even you never thought he would, and even if he said that he never wanted to marry. Aries man will magically “forget” about the plans he wasn’t that down for in the first place, he will sit out and focus on the few people that he trusts, but this doesn’t mean you don’t have his affection. He’s different, but once you stop sizing him up against the status-quo, and appreciate him against him standards—you will realize that you’ve got a good thing!
ARIES WOMAN
(March 21--April 19)
She’s the type to have all her ducks in order. She is waiting for the right duck to swim in, or in her case: the best duck chasing after her! Aries woman wants the best. Yes, she’s entertained some losers in her time, but she never wants anything serious from someone who can’t swim in her lane; the fast lane. Aries Woman is self-sufficient. If she ignores you or can’t take your phone call—this is because her life does not revolve around her love relationship. Aries Woman is usually very career and goal driven. Love is a part of the package, but love is not the entire package. She wants to get married, but isn’t the type to gush about it. Aries Woman is set firstly on establishing herself into a worthy commodity and THEN she can pay attention to you. Aries Woman needs constant affection and physical loving. She might not be the best at romance (though thoughtful and caring) she does expect the ultimate romance in return. Aries Woman will always see your faults, which is why you should not give her reason to become unimpressed. Don’t embarrass her in front of her co-workers, don’t forget an important holiday or yell at her for being too busy—accept the greatness that is the Aries Woman OR go home. Aries woman will rarely change for anyone, and if she does, it is usually because she is in head over her heels. When head over heels, Aries woman can soften into sweetness. In this case, all the control, which Aries woman had worked to build, is lost, When lost, she becomes a puppy to her romantic interest and might even put them first!
SAGITTARIUS MAN(November 22--December 21)
He’s busy but it’s nothing personal. Sag man is a bit of a “business man”, he’s chasing after that paper and it’s mapped out in six different directions. This is to say that he does a lot or is involved in a lot of different things. You might think this means other women, which could be true, but a mature Sag man (in love) is generally loyal to his Boo. Sagittarius man doesn’t want to be pestered in love. He does the pestering. If you let him he will be needy of you, and in spirit of helping you improve your flaws. Sag man can’t help but seek perfection, and when he looks at something he wants it to shine (as perfectly as he does--or at least as perfect as he thinks he does) he tries to communicate this. Sagittarius man can have a diluted sense of confidence or a diluted sense of sense, which can make emotional intimacy rough. You can’t be the one to falter at this. You have to master emotional intimacy or at least protection and security if you plan to love this man long-term. This being said, if he’s busy, he’s busy, just don’t bother him. Even if this means he is out at a party with other females—let it be. You will only wake the temper in this man, and trust. You do not want to do that. He’s part business man, but also part gypsy. He wants to wander and he wants to place his bets, but remember this man is The Archer, he is on the hunt for a rare find. What he can get easily
will be disposed of. He needs random adventures and seclusion to feel agile—don’t take it personally, Sag man can only be aware of what is in front of him. If you aren’t there, he’s not thinking about it too much. If he’s with you, he trust you, and knows that if he wants to, he can always see you later.
SAGITTARIUS WOMAN(November 22--December 21)
She’s part man-part-amazing. Yes, she’s sexy, well traveled and confident, but she can open her own doors, pitch her own tent and pour her own beverage. Regardless, she won’t be bossy if her man attempts to master any of these things for her. Secretly, she’s a wet blanket for romance, but most people would never guess it. She probably comes off like the workaholic, bossy, control-freak, money-hungry type, but she’s actually all about the best value. The best value doesn’t come easily, which is why she is OK to wait. She’s not picky, she just knows what she wants – there is a big difference. She might be on the hunt longer than most, but she’s out there, and she’s not afraid to get stung, as long as you don’t leave any emotional bruises. You might wonder what she’s thinking, but in this case, it always best to just ask, check-in, shoot her a text –she’s not going to make the first move. If she does, she might be in the fast-pace lane to get over someone else, but otherwise she will bear on caution. Sag is protective of the people they love and themselves. Sag is OK on their own, they want to be in-love, but not with just anybody. If Sagittarius woman gives you the chance and you really like her: shake her tree a little bit. Don’t play the game knowing that she will be. Sag Woman is a gamer, she knows how to play, but while she may play the field hard, with her heart, she runs a soft game. If you want in, you will have to play a little harder, dig a little deeper and work a little bit in order to get her to open up.
LEO MAN(July 23--August 22)
He’s a master of loyalty, which is why he won’t lead you on if he’s not into you. He’s charming and a flirty, but generally harmless. He’ll poke fun at questionable places with people—only because he can, and because they likely know the nature of his game: hilarious, but harmless. Despite this inherent loyalty, Leo Man loves attention and will entertain it even if he is in love. Leo man won’t physically engage in these flirtations if they are truly, truly in love. Leo man has ultimate devotion for the person he calls “baby” and would never cheat if he’s committed his heart. This is why Leo man will ignore the messages of girls he could care less for. Leo man is of the heart (Leo rules the heart) and can struggle to hook up with people without letting the heart get in the way. Truth, Leo man will contact you if he’s into you, he will. Leo man is consumed by what he loves: his job, his friends and his significant other. All of these things are an extensions of the Leo and therefore require a great deal of attention. This is why if Leo is not around, you can take it as sign that they are not that interested in you. Leo stays true to their ambitions. Don’t fall prey to their drunken stupor. Leo is a different man when in the limelight of alcohol and adoring fans. Back at the Lion’s den, Leo will divide and conquer what really matters matters and what really doesn’t doesn’t. All things aside, this man does not want drama or bad energy with you. Leo man would much rather that you still love them, even if they hurt you or didn’t love you back. Being cool is the Leo man’s mantra. When this doesn’t occur Leo man may try to kill you with kindness. Leo man will ignore you as good a you ignore him—but it will be hard to ignore him, Leo man gets noticed.
LEO WOMAN(July 23-August 22)
Leo Woman loves to be in love so much that she doesn’t always recognize her pattern of falling madly in love, and then falling madly out of love. Regardless, when she finds the one, she is happy and will broadcast her love all over everything and everywhere. If she is an extroverted Lion, she will want the world to see all the cute things that her lover and everyone else does for her. A Leo lady loves attention, whether she is more bold/brazen or modest/shy, The queen Lion doesn’t do well without people to love who love her in return. She wants to make her mark—somewhere, but sometimes loses her own way when she becomes blinded by an attraction. A perfect example of an outgoing, attention-loving, Leo lady is Jennifer Lopez. Note that she doesn’t nurse staleness in any union and if she feels rebuffed by her lover, she will seek attention from others. Stability is great for this woman, but it is not the recipe for her relationship success. If things in love become too predictable or stationary for this woman, she will bore and roam elsewhere. Who knows who she is texting all the time? Or who she is talking to? This woman is capable of blowing air into many different tires at the same time. Leo lady loves to be in love, but she knows all to well how love can hurt, She almost always has her back-up. It would be rare for her to exit a relationship without a chaperon to her car. She can be flaky, so don’t think she doesn’t love you, if she forget about you. When she needs you, she will be right there like a beautiful explosion you can’t ignore. Take nothing she does to heart unless she asks you to, this woman can love many things, but the thing she loves the most is the thing she can’t bear to leave. Lucky you are, if this is you.
GEMINI GUY(May 21--June 20)
Gemini guy is not the type to shy away from daily texts. in fact he might even be the instigator of them. Gemini guy has a lot of feminine energy and therefore won’t be like most guys. If he says you are going to hear from him then you likely will. If for some reason plans fall out, this guy will have an explanation and a colourful apology, perhaps accompanied by dinner, flowers or gifts. This guy likes to impress his lady with hospitality. He will roll out the red carpet. He’s a communicator, but he needs to know he can talk to you, not just that you are using him to solve your problems, but that you can listen. This guy can be attracted to suitors from all walks of life, but he rests best with a person who attracts his mind. Mental connections are key, which is why this guy won’t be scared to call you on the phone or take you away for a well-planned weekend. He needs fun and stimulation too, which will involve separation and adventure. Gemini guy will start to snicker at the things he has too easily. He may manipulate them or betray them if partners becomes too centralized on the relationship itself. Gemini guy wants a partner, but he wants a lot of other things in return, and will have friendships with other woman and many other people. Even if Gemini guy wants you to be jealous, jealousy and the actions that comes with it—will drive him away from you. Trusting him to go out on his own and do his own thing will prove to give the relationship air. An air that Gemini will need in order to breath in love; let him do whatever he wants on his phone. Don’t get it twisted, Gemini is needy of their mate, but it favours them best when their mates aren’t needy of them. Gemini is a sucker for wanting the unobtainable so even if they’ve already got you, create a world around the continent of your love; keep it interesting.
GEMINI GIRL(May 21--June 20)
When’s she secure in her intellects, beauties and gifts –she makes love happen. Gemini girl is going to get back to you, always, but she needs time. Chatting on the phone requires her undivided attention, something she usually does not have to give. Gemini woman is independent. She will always make time for her love, always. She’s bitchy, but tender, hard-working, sweet when she wants to be and a good-time. She’s vibrant all the time even when she’s hungry and in a bad mood. Even when she feels ugly, there is something about this woman that still glows in beauty. Gem girl radiates charm when needed, and can be pushy when she’s stressed out and needing to get things done. She’s prone to taking on more than she can handle, but somehow, always manages to handle it just right. She’s ideal about love. She wants it a certain way, from a certain type of person and at a certain time. She’s the master of planning and needs to be with someone who respects her sense of navigation. You know she’s really smitten when she starts to abandon her old ways and embrace a new way of life, which is likely influenced by the person she is with. Gemini girl is nobody’s fool, but she knows when to let things go, and she pick her battles. Gemini girl wants things to be perfect, but even when a plan is executed against her perfect expectations, she will host matters with the utmost sense of charm and generosity. She can get close, but she never lets anyone, including her partner, get too close. Gemini girl believes that a lady, acts like one and doesn’t tell her man anything that will salt your idealized image. Gemini girl will always have some secrets up her sleeve.
AQUARIUS GUY(January 20-- February 18)
He’s not the type of guy to do anything by the book. He wrote his own book. Aquarius guy has his own agenda. He will expect you to adjust to his ways. Aquarius guy does not change for anyone. He may settle down with the woman who tickles his fancy, but he won’t sacrifice his ultimate independence easily. He can be prone to disappearing or failing at communication in relationships. Let him be. He will be in touch with you if it is in his heart to do so, but he can’t be pegged down. He especially will not be held down by anyone who he questions. He’s a bit of a weirdo, but a loveable weirdo at that. He does things to the beat of his own drum, and usually this is a tune that everyone wants to dance along to. Don’t play the jealousy card with this guy. He doesn’t react well to “needy” in anyone, but you’ll find he has a soft spot for you if he feels like he “needs” you. Aquarius guy loves women and generally has many female friends. He can be a huge flirt, is great with the charm, but this doesn’t mean it leads anywhere later. Even if this man is capable, very capable of having charmed one-night stands, he’s also very capable of keeping his flirtations platonic. Either way, all the evil you imagine he feels towards you is likely not well fared. Aquarius guy is only mean upon reason to be. Otherwise he wants to retain friendliness with everyone, including his exes or one-night flings.
AQUARIUS GIRL(January 20-- February 18)
She’s not your average damsel in distress. In fact if there is a problem she can probably fix it herself. She’s independent and feminist at heart. She knows she can keep up with the boys. She’s not afraid to be adventurous or try new things. She’s spiritual, active and intelligent. She wants to enjoy life, but might struggle in the love department. She’s a thinker and sometimes over thinks things, situations and people. She’s an excellent flirt and knows how to be cheeky, She is open to kissing a lot of frogs. Dating can be adventures here and often she will experience these adventures. She will make a call and then wash her hands of you or see you again in three years time. No hard feelings, Aquarius girl doesn’t welcome bad thoughts upon enemies, but she will harp on elements of disrespect. She knows how she should be treated and will snicker in the opposite direction if you show her an unruly side. Or she will string you along and suddenly stop hanging out with you all together. When it comes to love, Aquarius is subject to having eternal flavours and short-lived failures. Jen Aniston’s published, romantic track records speaks volumes to this assumption. She was constantly in new relationships, but did not settle for the second ‘one’ until much later. Aquarius women might want motherhood and marriage, but they don’t have time line for either—just ideals. Career, work, success and young-inspired goals are encouraged in the Aquarius world. While Aquarius views these dreams with a short time frame, Aquarius is aware that love functions by the clock it desires. If Aquarius girl likes you and you don’t feel the same from them, you can expect efforts. Even it’s nothing serious. Aquarius likes the attention and never forgets where she can always find attention if she needs it. She also knows life is too short not to take risks.
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LIBRA GIRL(September 23--October 23)
She wants to present herself as the most fashionable and admirable female in the room, but sometimes even Libra girl loses her footing. Libra lady can lose her way, but she usually finds something even better to rest her limbs upon. Libra lady knows how to keep the connection strong between mutual friends. She knows how to form intimate relationships with various people from various groups. Libra is the lady who could have a lover and a home full of pets, or in some Libra cases, she might allowably have a second bed mate. Libra lady loves to love and feel love, but also loves to relish in the natural pleasure of love, life and great music. Libra lady has a bit of ‘hippy chic’ in her. She sports some mixed ambitions and multi-talents. Libra can be a productive working force that takes on too much and doesn’t know where to invest. Libra can be terrible with emotions or absolutely fabulous with them, All of this depends on the individual history of the Libra lady and what she has had to overcome in her personal trails. Libra lady doesn’t like drama, so if you have been texting or talking about a matter, which Libra has expressed very little interest in, you can expect to be ignored until things blow over. Libra lady always wants thing to blow over. Keep this in mind while you take her silence as judgment. Libra lady knows that most arguments and misunderstandings were probably best resolved by taking space.
LIBRA GUY(September 23--October 23)
Libra is usually Mr. Cool. If he’s not texting you it’s because his phone is dead, he lost his phone or he’s too busy jamming to answer his phone. None of this is personal. If Libra guy wants to suddenly hang out with his friends or go for a ride on his long board—it doesn’t mean he doesn’t care for. Libra guy needs a bit of personal time to breath and play because separating his couple time and his “guy time” is important to him. Libra guy will go into quiet mode when they don’t have anything nice to say. Or they will hide their hostility in humour, which usually is more hurtful than it is helpful. Emotions will scare Libra guy if he’s scared by his own emotions and he probably is. Tying down a Libra guy can take time and patience. Even the Charming Libra will feel the need to exercise his own desires. A Libra guy will always have the whim to entertain others, which is why jealousy won’t be favoured. Libra guy will simply ignore you if you get to be too much, but he will always be back if he love you. Libra guy returns to the place he feels most connected. Libra guy knows that while a person can fulfill their playful aspects elsewhere that they need to be with someone who provides more of a balance; someone who provides a greater sense of control. Libra guy doesn’t like to hurt people’s feeling so try not to think the worst of him. That being said, a younger Libra guy is more likely for wandering that leads to trouble. The maturity of any guy is marked by his years, but also through his own capabilities and his individual development. Libra guy isn’t the first to grow up, in fact he is often the Peter Pan, Lil’ Wayne, lost boy who never wants to grow up completely.
CAPRICORN MAN(December 22--January 19)
He’s often timely and predictable, though Capricorn men born closer to Sagittarius tend to borderline on reckless. Capricorn man has a place, time and binary for everything. If he’s left you, it’s because he feels so attractive and powerful and wishes to explore his options. Though despite the sexual conquests available to him, Capricorn man will always return to the place where his heart feels most at home. This is important, building a sense of structure, devotion and loyalty, which this hard-working man can come home to. Capricorn man supports the goals of his partner, but when personally committed, he doesn’t need everyone in his life to be of a high caliber. In fact, this man is attracted to submission. In bed and in work he likes to dominate. He can be out dominated by beauty, heart and charm. At the root he either wants someone as shrewd as he can be or someone who is much, much sweeter and will ignite his sensitive sappy side. A side that can get lost in his pompous exterior, which doesn’t always let people know that there is a softer side. Capricorn man is very much what he says he is. If he asks you for your company, he means it, and will take offence if you rebuff him on more than one occasion. He takes his time seriously and so should you. Mind you, a true testament to his love is whether or not he can relax with you. Snuggling up on the couch in comfy clothes and doing nothing. This is the most natural Capricorn can be and if he can be this way with you, well that is saying something because once this man decides to stick it is usually for great lengths, and often forever; if he can help it.
CAPRICORN WOMAN(December 22--January 19)
Capricorn Woman is high-class and hard-work. She’s not going to give up her ambitions just to be with you, In fact you better get some ambitions if you plan to be with her. She’s tough, but she’s tender. Not to everyone. She’s especially devoted to the people she lets in, but as she ages she finds this is fewer and fewer. For some people, she’s all about maintaining a certain reputation, which require taking a certain about of distance. In which case, she can never really be herself. In other cases, Capricorn Woman is hilarious and understood. People aren’t as intimated by her once they get to know her and see how hard she is on herself. Capricorn Woman wants the best and she wants the best in love. Though she’ll take a chance where her heart wagers. Sometimes it turns out great, other times she proves to be too capable of taking care of things on her own. She can scare away weak men, easily. She doesn’t like want she can toy with willing. She prefers a challenge. She doesn’t mind making more than you, unless, you mind. She does best with a person on her playing field, but if she loves you, she will cheer lead your goals, even if they are smaller than hers. Capricorn woman makes time for love. It may seem she puts work first, but love is want she looks forward to. Love is what she rests her feet up against. She needs love and while she may not be the first to show it, if you do, she will never forget it, and in her own time, will warm up to you just the same.
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TAURUS GUY(April 20--May 20)
There usually are no games with Taurus guy. If he’s into you, he will be on your phone before you even expect it. He’s not scared off by sex on the first date. If he likes you sex will just bond him to you further. This guy can actually determine his like for a woman through the art of sex. He’s got basic needs and sex is one of them, but so is food, and sleep. The key to his heart is through his stomach, if you feed him, he will be more than pleased. He wants to protect you if he loves you. He can quickly turn into the Kevin Costner Bodyguard type. Taurus guy has a tendency to possess things. Taurus guy protects his prized possessions with a watchful eye. Taurus guy is manly and rugged with a very tender centre. Ruled by Venus, Taurus is often in the mood for love. In fact, this guy will prefer having a love to call his own. When we say no games, remember this. If he’s not into you he won’t be on your phone all the time and he will leave you wondering. When he’s interested there are no wonderings except maybe: wow is he needy? He can be, but he can also be smothering if he is interested and you are not. Taurus man is durable, dependable and prone to devotion. Taurus has the lowest divorce rate for a reason, they don’t like to let go and only will if they absolutely have to.
TAURUS GIRL (April 20--May 20)
Taurus girl is capable of keeping up with the boys. She probably loves watching sports, but she is still a bit of a diva. Taurus girl may have to work herself up for adventures like camping outdoors. Or she may be opposed to going all together. Taurus girl is much like Taurus guy, if she is into you, there are no questions. She will make it crystal clear, unless of course, she is scared. Taurus girl will protect the ones she loves, but she will also protect herself. Taurus girl hates to get hurt because she knows how long it will take her to get over it. Taurus girl moves slowly when it comes to big things like changing jobs or exiting a relationship. She knows how to keep herself busy and will make plans for good times and things to look forward to. She likes to get all done up and be seen in her cute little outfits. Taurus girl is a hard-worker and a strong partner. She is often the strength behind many immature men who need guidance, durability and support. Taurus girl will stick around even when she’s not getting fed. Being alone isn’t always her favourite cup of tea. She likes to be entertained and enjoys social affairs with trusted friends. Make no mistake that she will be messaging you or displaying her love online. She can’t help it. Love is the air that she breathes. Therefore if love is in the air, it is all this woman can see. If love mates are scarce she will care for a pet or be very involved in her friendships, but regardless relationships are big here, Taurus generally will have an entourage, even if that entourage is rather small. Taurus learns over time that she prospers from intimate relationships which she can trust. She shouldn’t pretend she can be casual about thing because it is in her nature to make a stand. She’s diplomatic, which is why she isn’t the best with blurry-defined lines.
VIRGO GUY(August 23--September 22)
He’s probably the most annoying about relationships because often he is all mixed up. At the root, Virgo guy wants a good girl. The type of girl that mom would like or the type who mirrors mom. Still, Virgo guy is attracted to beauty and can easily make drunk choices that do not root their character. Virgo guy is the best to watch mature because he can evolve over time, but never entirely. There will be something controlling about this man, in that he is often too afraid to give up control in order to ‘be’ in love. Virgo guy needs his space. He is the opposite of smothering. He’s not a sappy lover, but he will provide and protect the person he loves. He can be extravagant when he wants to be. Virgo is the sign of service so what he doesn’t tell you, he will shower you with. If he is seemingly trying to hold down perfection in real life, in the bedroom he will be a different story. Good sex is often what keeps women coming back to this man. Beneath all his criticism is kindness. He’s a navigator who can’t be told what to do. He hates superiority and answers to his own law. The more you try to get on his page, the less he will want you there. The more you have going on in your own life—the better, but you still have to be there when this man really needs you. Virgo guy is a realist. He doesn’t pay compliments just to be charming and he doesn’t kiss butt. This guy is all about modest confidence. While he may seem confident, rest assured that he is super hard on himself in private. Virgo man is often conflicted by the rationality of his thoughts and the complexity of his emotions. He wants to think he doesn’t want to feel and he certainly does not want to empathize. He can however provide you with some moral insight. Remember that this man can’t stay away from what has a hold on him, he will try, but eventually he will fold and run back to who he feels most secure with. Looking for perfection is his bill, but once he gives this up, he can potentially find the most perfect person for him.
VIRGO GIRL(August 23--September 22)
She can be a bit shy, but that doesn’t mean she doesn’t want attention. Virgo girl can be outgoing too, but there is always a shy side to her. She needs to feel comfortable to find her voice. Otherwise she might keep to herself. She’s visually observant and notices everything, but will question whether people are into her. They usually are, but she will resort to “preparing for the worst and hoping for the best”—this woman can’t help but worry. She’s good-natured, sure she has a naughty side, but that usually comes out behind closed door. At the root she just wants to be with someone forever and know that she can trust them. Virgo girl has usually been through the ringer with partners and knows that people doesn’t come free of problems. She’s maternal to her lover’s needs. She’s devoted and ready to spend as much time with you as possible. Finding a mate is very important to her but she doesn’t have the cheesy ability to sell her beauty as aggressively as some girls do. She’s got some intellect and she’s got class. She wants attention but she doesn’t demand it, it is naturally achieved. Suitors come to her in a timely fashion. She’s got a wifey vibe to her, but don’t let it fool you entirely. She’s not innocent, she may come off this way, but trust me, the Virgo vixen is no fool.
SCORPIO MAN(October 23--November 22)
Scorpio man is one of a kind that is for sure. There are exceptions here, but usually he takes in more than he sends off. Scorpio man is not about the words he is about the actions. If Scorpio man doesn’t text you when you expect him to it’s because he is not even thinking about texting you. Scorpio man likes to saturate himself with the moment, whatever that may be. He’s prone to being silent but deadly. He’s an extremist, good when he’s good, bad when he’s bad, but usually very good or very bad. Scorpio man loves with the intent that it is forever. Storing their faith and trust in you is a big deal. Rapper Drake is a Scorpio, what does his music tell you? Scorpio man has massive trust issues. This man is not going to give up his heart unless he knows it is going to be taken care of. Showing love is the key here, but Scorpio male needs to work on communicating. Natural sex appeal is awesome, but when you get older this is not going to hold up. Scorpio can be hot and cold. Don’t take this personally. There are certain people Scorpio feels more comfortable losing it in front of, but even that is rare because Scorpio is all about control. Scorpio man hates for others to see him lose it. Simply put, Scorpio man does nothing without intent. Therefore if Scorpio man isn’t returning your calls, let it be. If he wants to see you he will be game to do so. If he’s here today, gone tomorrow, let him go. He’s not worth the energy. If he’s difficult to begin with that means he will only get messier. Look for clean cuts when shopping for a Scorpio. Try to avoid a Scorpio who is still hung up on their last chapter, and you will be hard-pressed to find a heartbroken Scorpio who isn’t. This is not the man who jumped back in the saddle with glee--or at least not for too long. Generally, Scorpio man is looking for someone to really be with. If you think this is you, pay attention to his actions. If he’s paying attention to you then that’s your indicator, don’t let words have too much volume in your verdict.
SCORPIO WOMAN(October 23--November 22)
Scorpio woman is a totally lovable bitch in total control. She could run your show, project manage your life and organize you closet. She’s powerfully smart. Scorpio male might internalize his intelligence, but Scorpio woman will put her smarts to the test. She’s not quick to find a mate she can’t live without, but when she does, she will not live without him. She’s capable of using people along the way. Often for sexual entertainment or just sheer amusement, but at the root she is looking for that picture-perfect devotion. She can be abusive, but does not mean to be. Sometimes Scorpio woman wakes up on the wrong side of the bed. She’s not a mushy lover, but she want to feel like it is okay to say ‘I love you’, really she needs a partner so adoring that he either forces her to say it or teaches her that it is OK. Scorpio Woman is very capable. Often she will hide her true feelings and emotions from other people. Scorpio woman takes joy in helping other people with their problems. This is also so that she never has to get into her own. She’s an excellent listener, but is prone to taking on too much at one time. Scorpio woman will do this to avoid dealing with her troubles or worries. She’s very inclined to lose herself in work or the needs of other people. Scorpio woman can get wound up in a ball of stress, which is why it is key for her to take solace in a playful partner who will remind her to enjoy life. She’s pretty straight forward with her time and her concern. If you are of value to her—she will make time for you, but please be mindful of her past relationships. They might highlight why she is the way she is but also will show if she’s capable of true emotional intimacy.
CANCER GUY(June 21--July 22)
Truth: Cancer guy is simply better when he is in love or has something to love. Cancer guy needs people and things to protect. He’s a homebody at the core. Sure, he loves film, music and good food, but he can probably cook that for you (at home). He’s romantic and a relationship sign. This is wonderful, but also his weakness. He’ll be waiting for your text. He’ll reply right on time. He’s interested even when he’s not. See, he just doesn’t always know which is which. The love of being in a relationship blinds the love of the actual love. Serial dating can be a crime here. Cancer guy: dating is not a band aide. Cancer guy will use potential partners to bandage the scars and keep his mood from getting crabby. Oh yeah, he’s crabby, but usually when his feelings are hurt or he is hungry. Sometimes he needs a little babying because he’s really not the best at handling stress. He could use a strong partner to compliment his softness. This being said, when he meets the right person it is bliss. The relationship moves in the right direction and you never question his faith or his feelings. You shouldn’t. Cancer can’t fake love in the long-run. You will know by the smile on their face, that this must be real. He’s no player even if he tries to be. He has a soft spot for having a somebody. As stated, he’s better when has something to protect, someone to come home and cling to.
CANCER GIRL(June 21--July 22)
Cancer girl is hilarious in her ways. A real natural Martha Stewart type who can creatively whip you up a costume or whip you up a perfectly accessorized outfit. She’s a raging flirt, but it’s harmless if she is with someone. She would almost never cheat. Like Cancer guy, she wants to build a home worth coming home to. She wants to make meals and cook romance. She’s sensitive, loving, caring and friendly. Yes, all Cancers have it in them to be moody or pressed by stress. You may need to lift her ego every now and again, but when this girl’s got it right, she carries herself with a certain, admirable light. All your friends love her, and the family too, sometimes Cancer girl seems too good too be true. The only caution is knowing where her head is at. Often, she will revert to her Cancer shell and deal with her emotions privately. She has to learn to let others be there for you if she expects to achieve true emotional intimacy with another person. She also has to be careful not to hide behind her humor as so many Cancers do. Everyone thinks Cancer Girl is funny, but she needs to know it is okay to take a moment to be serious. If you really want to impress her don’t hate on anything that is apart of her empire. She will defend her people to the core. Cancer protects by nature, and they won’t waste their time on anything unworthy of protection.
PISCES GUY(February 19--March 20)
There are probably no two greater opposites than the male and female Fish. It’s true to form here: there are plenty of fish in the sea and each fish type holds different attributes. Some are bad trout and some are starfish, here’s hoping he’s the better of the bunch. Generally this man makes the mistakes of confusing love and sex. Sometimes sex will create him a future, perhaps a child, an unforeseen marriage and then perhaps a divorce. It is not unlikely for a Pisces guy to be married more than once. Pisces guy has a good heart, but sometimes gets carried away in manipulations. Pisces guy is persistent as fuck when wants something. He will say all the right things and be a prince in the moment only to turn back into a toad. This happens. Don’t let it steer you. The Fish can be full of complimenting, generous passionate. A Pisces guy in his right favour can make you feel like you are the only girl in the world, but they are moody. What goes up must come down. In order to truly love this man you will have to be emotionally patient and emotionally strong. Like Scorpio, you may wonder why he hasn’t texted you, but it probably hasn’t even occurred to him to text you. Pisces guy also likes to saturate himself in the moment. Water signs tend to have this charming affect on people, which is why their lives are often a bit more unpredictable. If he’s a smart fish and a good looking fish he probably knows it. Tread with caution. Remember he doesn’t know what he wants yet, and might rely on a partner to guide him because he still has so much growing up to do. Also, he doesn’t want to grow up, generally this man is a big kid at heart. He might know some of the things he wants, but much he is figuring out along the way.
PISCES GIRL(February 19--March 20)
Pisces girl is the queen B of wanting what rejects her. Some say she is so addicted to the rejection that when things are going right she might do something impulsive just to create a little drama. Truth, she is just used to the worst and accustom to expecting it. She might have five people who love her and one person who doesn’t, in which case she will foolishly focus on the one person who doesn’t. Love for her is the ultimate. She has probably found herself “working” for love in the last while. Giving too much when she wasn’t getting back the same. Pisces girls tend to persist with the person they love. They don’t lose faith quickly if their heart is set on you. If you manage to keep their heart it is probably because you are complicated and not always easy to read. Pisces Girl is highly perspective and will get stuck on the people that she can’t read easily. Her curiosity and thirst for knowledge makes her pressed for answers. She will go fishing. This usually hurts her more than it does anyone else. If you like this girl, let her know. If she likes you and is letting you know, don’t string her on if you don’t feel the same. A person who uses a Pisces is a sad individual. Taking advantage of the emotionally weak and generous is never kind. Don’t let her fall into flighty mode, but don’t let her take off that easy. She will try to sass you away if she isn’t interested, but if you really start to create a dialogue with her, and formulate a meeting of the minds – she can change her mind. Pisces girl is capable of liking the oddest of matches if they take a chance. She’s a chameleon. Looks are not everything, but Pisces girl tends to fall back upon her dream crush and becomes a sucker for boyish good looks. Try not to take it too hard if you’ve stalked her for a date and she didn’t bite. Remember she wants most what doesn’t want her, so play your cards right and she’ll be stalking you. Sadly, the moment she does this she loses all her mysterious sex appeal and luring intuition. Try to see past that too. Technology sort of vamped the emotional charm of the Fish girl, you got to feel her fins out on land!
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